Post # 17
Longest I’ve ever gone is 4 days (while visiting his family) and it was torture!
Post # 18
I’m glad your Fiance was willing to wait those 1.7 years. Not a lot of people understand it! 🙂
Post # 19
hmm…i’d say a week tops. I told Fiance maybe we would try not to til the wedding, he said yahhh right, we both wouldn’t be able to. lol and I knew he was right.
Post # 20
Two weeks max then fi whines…LOL
Post # 21
I bet! When do you go back home? I wish we could do it all the time, but then I really would go crazy with how much I panic.
Lol that is a good answer :p and its good that you stuck to your faith and waited until you were married, but I am sure that after waiting that long its not in your plans to wait any longer haha your husband should understand that! 🙂
Post # 22
We are currently 3 months into a 10-month deployment for DH…and it is torture! We were also in the camp where we waited until we were married — completely worth it and being together is incredible!
He had a school last year where he was gone for about 10 weeks and that nearly killed us…not quite sure how we are going to survive for the remainder of this year. Let’s just say thank goodness for Skype — it has saved us in many ways!
Post # 23
I’m sorry if my post was confusing. DH (who, by the way, completely shared and supported my beliefs about our not having sex before marriage, but he was married for a couple of decades before meeting and marrying me, so he didn’t have to wait nearly as long as I did, haha) actually tells me I’m impatient about OTHER types of things in life (such as wanting to go out to eat, even though we’ve just gone a few days earlier, or making purchases, etc.) I just jokingly blame the fact that I don’t have a lot of patience on the fact that I had to be patient for SO long about the sex issue, haha. (Of course, in all seriousness, I know that my Christian faith teaches that patience is a fruit of the Holy Spirit, so I have no excuse to NOT have patience except that I have not been very good at allowing God to develop it in me. I just like to joke about this, though, because it’s easier than having to make the hard choices to BE patient about those other things in life.) Hope that all makes sense! 🙂
Post # 24
I think if I become like that when I get married and cant get passed two weeks Fiance is going to be very happy 😉 the more the better, right!
that sucks! :/ but dont worry it will get here soon!
I guess compared to you I can last pretty long if I can go 3 months, but I wish it was as often as you!
No they dont, and I’m really surprised he did, but we were each others first, so I guess we were both just waiting for the right time.
Lol well I tell my Fiance the same thing because we have said we will stop so many times before and by the time you know it we are back to square one. Its hard to wait that long! But this time I really want to try.
Ha I think all guys do! I’m sure Fiance would too if we had to opportunity to do it more often, but for now he is good, as long as he still gets something else.
Post # 25
I think it helps that it was his first too. My guy, it wasn’t… so I’m super glad he was ok with it, though he was hoping I would change my mind sooner than later hahaha. I have a really low drive, though. I think I could go a long time, no biggie haha
Post # 26
For me is just impossible he is so sexy hahaha !! I can’t stop !!Only if other friking stones decide to come out !!! 😉
Post # 27
- Wedding: May 2020 - establishment theatre
usually a week at the most and thats usually “that week”..however by the end im climbing the walls lol. we have decided that about two weeks before the wedding we will refrain from it, to make our wedding night a bit more special…but yeah i usually cant do more than a couple days at most lol
Post # 28
Oh my I bet it is! I love Skype! It has helped Fiance and I before as well! I’m glad you waited until you were married, thats very good! 🙂 I hope his time away goes by quickly and stay strong, he will be back before you know it!
Oh my bad, yeah it makes sense 🙂 It is very good that he supported your belief of waiting until you were married, any other man would have walked out once he heard he had to wait, well those that dont really care about the person themselves anyways, you picked the right man to become your husband! 🙂
Post # 29
No idea. But I went 27 years so I guess I could handle it.
Since getting married we haven’t gone longer than maybe 5 days, but I’ve never tried to abstain either. Guess I’m all or nothing.
Post # 30
yeah maybe youre right, and glad yours waited that long as well 🙂 that is respect for you!
Haha I think the same of my Fiance, but since we dont have our own place and both live with our parents it bcomes harder so we have had to stick to every 2-3 months which sometimes drive me crazy!
Lol ay I bed your Fiance and you both hate “that week” then, I think my Fiance will too! Good luck in waiting two weeks before the wedding, I’m sure that will have its rewards 🙂
Post # 31
We’ve gone six months before while he was studying abroad.