(Closed) Whats the longest you would go without sex?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long have you gone without sex with your SO?

    1 week-1 month

    1-4 months

    4-8 months

    8-12 months

    longer than a year

  • Post # 17
    8880 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    Longest I’ve ever gone is 4 days (while visiting his family) and it was torture!

    Post # 18
    3967 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

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    @lioness_89:  I’m glad your Fiance was willing to wait those 1.7 years. Not a lot of people understand it! πŸ™‚

    Post # 19
    1100 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    hmm…i’d say a week tops. I told Fiance maybe we would try not to til the wedding, he said yahhh right, we both wouldn’t be able to. lol and I knew he was right.

    Post # 20
    1157 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Two weeks max then fi whines…LOL

    Post # 22
    194 posts
    Blushing bee

    We are currently 3 months into a 10-month deployment for DH…and it is torture!  We were also in the camp where we waited until we were married — completely worth it and being together is incredible!

    He had a school last year where he was gone for about 10 weeks and that nearly killed us…not quite sure how we are going to survive for the remainder of this year.  Let’s just say thank goodness for Skype — it has saved us in many ways!


    Post # 23
    11507 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

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    @lioness_89:  I’m sorry if my post was confusing. DH (who, by the way, completely shared and supported my beliefs about our not having sex before marriage, but he was married for a couple of decades before meeting and marrying me, so he didn’t have to wait nearly as long as I did, haha) actually tells me I’m impatient about OTHER types of things in life (such as wanting to go out to eat, even though we’ve just gone a few days earlier, or making purchases, etc.)  I just jokingly blame the fact that I don’t have a lot of patience on the fact that I had to be patient for SO long about the sex issue, haha. (Of course, in all seriousness, I know that my Christian faith teaches that patience is a fruit of the Holy Spirit, so I have no excuse to NOT have patience except that I have not been very good at allowing God to develop it in me.  I just like to joke about this, though, because it’s easier than having to make the hard choices to BE patient about those other things in life.) Hope that all makes sense! πŸ™‚

    Post # 25
    3967 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

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    @lioness_89:  I think it helps that it was his first too. My guy, it wasn’t… so I’m super glad  he was ok with it, though he was hoping I would change my mind sooner than later hahaha. I have a really low drive, though. I think I could go a long time, no biggie haha

    Post # 26
    473 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    For me is just impossible he is so sexy hahaha !! I can’t stop !!Only if other friking stones decide to come out !!! πŸ˜‰

    Post # 27
    714 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2020 - establishment theatre

    usually a week at the most and thats usually “that week”..however by the end im climbing the walls lol. we have decided that about two weeks before the wedding we will refrain from it, to make our wedding night a bit more special…but yeah i usually cant do more than a couple days at most lol

    Post # 29
    3977 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    No idea. But I went 27 years so I guess I could handle it.

    Since getting married we haven’t gone longer than maybe 5 days, but I’ve never tried to abstain either. Guess I’m all or nothing.

    Post # 31
    3175 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    We’ve gone six months before while he was studying abroad.

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