(Closed) Whats the longest you would go without sex?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long have you gone without sex with your SO?

    1 week-1 month

    1-4 months

    4-8 months

    8-12 months

    longer than a year

  • Post # 63
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    Helper bee

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    @lioness_89:  We talked about it earlier and it seems our Tuesdays are both free!  I have an exam in the morning and it’s his day off between his exams and going back to work.  So barring anything spontaneous, I think we have a day πŸ˜‰  And he says things will pick up now that classes are done with but we’ll see about that.  I’ve pretty much made peace with having to wait (for an engagement that is!  haha, I just realized that wasn’t a very smooth transition lol).  I posted a thing about it here like, a week ago.  But it can be hard sometimes, a couple old friends have gotten engaged recently (two just got engaged a couple nights ago!) but I know our time will come πŸ™‚  because, really, what’s it matter?  I have him now just the same as I would if we were engaged, nothing would change except we’d officially be on the road to being legally tied (not saying it’s not important because I really do want to get married! lol)  This ring was kind of an unofficial engagement ring for a while (we kinda let ourselves get a little too far and started talking about marriage like… two months in… but we’ve pulled ourselves back to reality)  But his mom can go kick rocks.  She goes back and forth between being a pretty cool lady and being a super bitch/ controlling nightmare.  So we’re just waiting until she doesn’t have much/ any leverage over SO (like college tuition and a bank account most of his rent money will be coming from- which means we can’t live together because she controls the purse strings and won’t allow it)

    I like long posts too lol I just feel like I have a tendency to ramble but oh well πŸ™‚

    Post # 64
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    About 4 and a half weeks after our baby was born. I was fine with it but he was dying haha 

    Post # 66
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    241 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2004

    8 months!!! I KNOW!! long story, but my father committed suicide and my younger brother and mother is now living with us and it is extremely stressful and the whole household, including our kids, has been disrupted and my mother is in the room next to us. It is just weird and I think I have kind of reached the point where I dont even miss it and we dont really discuss it either seeing that we are never ever alone and the added stress of taking care of two additional people and just getting through each day is kind of all-consuming. Kind of feel like a failure, actually.

    Post # 68
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    A week or two. Fiance and I lived with our parents up until this week. lol. And only really saw each other once a week. I’m just looking forward to being able to do it anytime I want lol

    Post # 70
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    Helper bee

    After I had my IUD inserted I was so sore I didn’t want sex for about a month and a half! The cramping was horrible :/ Fiance understood though, and when things normalized we were like teenagers again πŸ˜›

    Post # 71
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We’re in an LDR so we go months!

    Post # 72
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    We went about 4 weeks..so basically a month. I had an upper respiratory infection and I’d cough for sooo long! Thrusting certainly made it worse, so sex was a no no. 

    Post # 74
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Sometimes I think that Fiance likes to make me wait till I get grumpy before giving it up.  Usually I am very easy going relaxed, but take the loving away for a week and you will start to see the horns coming out of the top of my head.

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