(Closed) Whats the one thing you and your SO will NEVER agree on?

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 91
2639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

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amstudent1:  My DH wants to name ours Han Solo, so I feel your pain. I hope he’s not actually serious, but h keeps acting like he is. Not gonna happen, though!

One thing DH and I don’t see eye-to-eye on is gender roles for children. I feel like if my son wants to taje ballet lessons or play with Barbies, and our daughter wants to play with plastic guns and trucks, it’s all fine and a normal part of development. He wouldn’t have an issue with a girl being a tomboy, but he doesn’t want his son doing “girly” things, and he thinks boys shouldn’t cry. Until we can come to an agreement (aka, he needs to stop being an ass), I don’t want kids. 

That’s the only thing that’s a big deal! 

ETA: I’ve even found an article on the topic, which I intend to make him read when we start talking about kids.

Post # 92
1133 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

He is for marijuana legalization and all drugs, I am 100% against.  We argue about it all the time, but I will not budge. I think it’s also because I’ve seen it personally ruin lives.  I think the ONLY way it should be legal is for medical purposes only.

Makes for an interesting debate though! We agree on almost all of the major issues though (gay marriage, abortion, etc.).

Post # 93
6933 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Boy #1 12/2015, boy #2 02/2018

I could never have a cup of coffee with DH, he hates the taste of it. I end up having a cup all by myself (sad face).

Post # 94
312 posts
Helper bee

i just announced the title of this thread and my SO said, “cats” (I am the one who loves them btw) 🙂

Post # 95
3561 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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gingerkitten:  My DH would totally suggest Han Solo for our future son. lol  We are TTC now, and currently the only boy name we both like was Luke or Lucas…then he had to go reference “Luke I am your Father” and started sending me pictures of a nursery in the “Wookie the Chew” theme.  (It’s like Star Wars themed Winnie the Pooh).  Now I’m not liking Luke or Lucas so much..lol

For us, we’ll never agree on mayo vs. Miracle Whip.  I hate Miracle Whip. lol


Post # 96
355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - The Fairmont, SF

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Scorpio88:  OMG! Twins! I’m adamantly against drug legalization and the use of drugs whereas my Fiance sees nothing wrong with the increased trend towards decriminalization and experimented plenty in the past. It’s actually the only thing that we ever argue about, though I’ve told him our marriage will be drug-free, or else. 😐

Post # 97
243 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

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MrsVC2015:  me too! haha i desperately want a cat (never could have one growing up) but Fiance is SUPER against it! He hates cats and he’s allergic 🙁 I’m still hoping to win this battle one day.. 

Post # 98
5934 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

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foreverlovex:  The number of books hubby has. It’s a bit of a bone of contention. Neither of us are pack rats, but he can’t let go of these books. Many many he has never read and will never read. That’s the part that really gets me. He also has a lot of DVDs that I think he has watched, but he has not watched them again in the whole time I’ve known him. We have a very small house and it’s a lot of stuff, but I just gave up. It’s not worth the fight. That way when I obsess on something (currently old window frames) he’ll have no room to talk!


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