Post # 91
- Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa
My DH wants to name ours Han Solo, so I feel your pain. I hope he’s not actually serious, but h keeps acting like he is. Not gonna happen, though!
One thing DH and I don’t see eye-to-eye on is gender roles for children. I feel like if my son wants to taje ballet lessons or play with Barbies, and our daughter wants to play with plastic guns and trucks, it’s all fine and a normal part of development. He wouldn’t have an issue with a girl being a tomboy, but he doesn’t want his son doing “girly” things, and he thinks boys shouldn’t cry. Until we can come to an agreement (aka, he needs to stop being an ass), I don’t want kids.
That’s the only thing that’s a big deal!
ETA: I’ve even found an article on the topic, which I intend to make him read when we start talking about kids.
Post # 92
He is for marijuana legalization and all drugs, I am 100% against. We argue about it all the time, but I will not budge. I think it’s also because I’ve seen it personally ruin lives. I think the ONLY way it should be legal is for medical purposes only.
Makes for an interesting debate though! We agree on almost all of the major issues though (gay marriage, abortion, etc.).
Post # 93
- Wedding: September 2011 - Boy #1 12/2015, boy #2 02/2018
I could never have a cup of coffee with DH, he hates the taste of it. I end up having a cup all by myself (sad face).
Post # 94
i just announced the title of this thread and my SO said, “cats” (I am the one who loves them btw) 🙂
Post # 95
My DH would totally suggest Han Solo for our future son. lol We are TTC now, and currently the only boy name we both like was Luke or Lucas…then he had to go reference “Luke I am your Father” and started sending me pictures of a nursery in the “Wookie the Chew” theme. (It’s like Star Wars themed Winnie the Pooh). Now I’m not liking Luke or Lucas so much..lol
For us, we’ll never agree on mayo vs. Miracle Whip. I hate Miracle Whip. lol
Post # 96
- Wedding: May 2015 - The Fairmont, SF
OMG! Twins! I’m adamantly
against drug legalization and the use of drugs whereas my Fiance sees nothing wrong with the increased trend towards decriminalization and experimented plenty in the past. It’s actually the only thing that we ever argue about, though I’ve told him our marriage will be drug-free, or else. 😐
Post # 97
me too! haha i desperately want a cat (never could have one growing up) but Fiance is SUPER against it! He hates cats and he’s allergic 🙁 I’m still hoping to win this battle one day..
Post # 98
The number of books hubby has. It’s a bit of a bone of contention. Neither of us are pack rats, but he can’t let go of these books. Many many he has never
read and will never
read. That’s the part that really gets me. He also has a lot of DVDs that I think he has watched, but he has not watched them again in the whole time I’ve known him. We have a very small house and it’s a lot of stuff, but I just gave up. It’s not worth the fight. That way when I obsess on something (currently old window frames) he’ll have no room to talk!