(Closed) What’s the rush? – How long till I lose it!!!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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42 posts
Newbee

I know how you feel girl! Do you have a timeline or anything or just waiting? It really does suck that men don’t understand how awful waiting can be and they assume you are “crazy” or “just want a wedding” Urrgghh no clue at all.

Post # 6
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659 posts
Busy bee

I know that conversation with frustration only creates tension but sometimes you can’t help it. I think if only he could give me a little more empathy while I wait it would be easier.

Agreed.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m sorry!  God, the answers he gave you are such guy answers!  

 

Totally understand how you feel.  *Hugs*

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

I mostly understand, but on the other hand, 2 years isn’t a HUGE amount of time. Just focus on  getting to know each other even better, and when the time is right, he’ll be ready! I know waiting SUCKS. Believe me, I know. It does end eventually though, and your guy knows what he needs to do, so he’ll do it.

Post # 9
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Newbee

I know how you feel.
BUT why do you go (to friends wedding) if it makes you feel like that!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Aww I get you completely. If my SO ever says to me “whats the rush?” I will say “why wait?”

Lifes too short to keep guessing when he will propose. It will happen anyway, why not make it happen sooner. Arghh!

Post # 12
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Helper bee

Use the line from When Harry Met Sally:

 

“When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” 

 

Makes sense to me.  But, men, they are a different breed.  I get tired of worrying about it and have been going through the “I don’t really care” phase lately. 

 

I agree with you, two years should be enough to know where and when you’re headed to matrimony.  Been with mine just over 3, and he still is “not ready” – I’m becoming “not so ready” too.

 

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