Post # 17
LOL I read this as ‘What is the sexist thing you do’
I was all ‘everything biotch’
To answer the question I find humor sexy. I have found myself over the years fancying the most unlikely guy because he is hilarious.
Post # 18
I love a good bulging bicep. 🙂
Post # 19
I voted muscles, but it’s also chest. Darling Husband has the sexiest pec muscles, six pack, and shoulders/upper arms. He’s damn fine, especially when he takes off his shirt and he’s in his jeans with his briefs peeking out. I’m a lucky girl 😉
Post # 20
I forgot to include my opinion when I posted lol.
My thing is personality. I never want to lick my lips or think to myself “daaang he’s sexy!” unless I know the person and their personality attracts me. With personality it’s gotta be the right sense of humor and the right intelligence level teamed with respect. When my husband shows his respect for me it gets my gears goin lol
Post # 21
I voted “other” because I’ve always been a sucker for deep, velvety voices. Fiance could read me the dictionary, and I’d be enthralled for hours. When he’s tired or angry (at other things, not me), his voice gets even deeper. Sooooo sexy. He can sing, too, which is just icing on the cake. Deep, delicious icing…
Post # 22
Lovely hands and lower arms – my OH has lovely big strong hands and lower arms. I nearly melt when he wears his shirt sleeves rolled up!
Also, talent! OH is a talented guitar/piano player. When he plays for me it’s amazing!
my ex also had lovely a hands, and was a very intelligent scientist, which for me corresponds as a ‘talent’, so I feel I’m staying true to type!
Post # 23
@TriciaG: oh yes, I love OH’s furry chest!
Post # 24
I like gruff, manly men. Looks wise, I can appreciate a variety of things, but I really like a good, strong 5 o’clock shadow at the very least and a solid beard is definitely a plus.
Post # 25
@PoppyRose: Yay! I’m not the only one 🙂 I was starting to wonder lol
@Mrs_Amanda: mmhmmmm My Fiance has a beard. Love it!
Post # 26
I picked hips/butt because if I’m going off pure carnal eye sight attraction I’m a sucker for a nice hip bone V. Have then showing over some nice jeans and yesssss.
Now for over all attraction it has to be personality. Darling Husband has gained some weight over the years (who hasn’t, we aren’t the 17 year olds we were when we met!) and I find him just as attractive now as I did almost 10 years ago (granted, even with about 20 extra pounds he still has yummy hip bones so that could be it too).
Post # 27
Personality is a big one for me! But I’d also say height. I’m 6’1″ myself so tall guys stand out wayyyyyy more to me.
Post # 28
@MrsNewBride427: Why are we only allowed to choose one? I don’t think that physical traits and personality traits belong in the same category. Also, I agree with pps that talent is incredibly sexy. Intelligence, personality, wit, good hair and eyes do it for me too, though.
Post # 29
I would say their heart. I have dated only men that not many other women would consider attractive. But in my eyes, they are. If someone has a big heart and they are genuine and sweet, it doesn’t take long for me to be attracted. Sure there are physical things that I prefer (nice smile, good skin…etc) but even the most attractive man can look ugly when he’s an asshole.
Post # 30
I love my husbands jawline! Esp when its covered with a 5 oclock shadow. And his six pack
Post # 31
On this list:
in that order.
I LOVE TATTOOS. Tattoos automaticaly add a point on the 1-10 scale to basically anyone as long as they’re well executed. Especially amazing tattoos that cover a lot of space could easily add 2+. More (good) tattoos = hotter. I keep nudging FH, he wants to get one but is lazy and they’re expensive and not high on his priorities.
I would not marry him if he wasn’t clever and funny though. Clever and funny are required, even prioritized over general kindness (which is also necessary but I have to admit, somehow takes a backseat to clever and funny.)
Physical only though, voice is my #1 thing. A really sexy voice can make someone who is otherwise unappealing suddenly attractive, and a bad voice can ruin someone who is otherwise gorgeous. After that, probably skin quality, physical fitness, and height, in that order. (The taller the better, but taller than me at least.) I also have a soft spot for nice hands and glasses, but none of this stuff holds a candle to voice.