Post # 1
Ugghh….I got 27 days to go, and at this point I am so overwhelmed, I feel like not doing anything else. Anything seems to tick me off really quick and I either get super mad, or start crying ;-(
- Groomsmen- I have 7 BM’s who are absolutely AWESOME, but to my surprise it is the GM’s that are bitching about EVERYTHING!!! And I mean everything…like girls…”Who am I walking with??”, “why you picked this color??”, “Why is the rehearsal at that time??” “Why is tux so expensive?” ..Ugghh, should have left all of them out in the first place.
- Ceremony Rehearsal- honestly at this point I dont even care if we have a rehearsal or not, I dont even want to deal with it!
- Toasts- Ok so is anyone else having ALL the bridal party talk??? WTF is that?? Why?? Fiance wants all of his bitching groomsmen to talk…I Do NOT! I think that Maid/Matron of Honor and Best Man speeches are enough!
I just want the day to get here and get all this over with!!!
Post # 3
guests NEVER want to listen to 7 Groomsmen speak plus moh, plus any BM’s plus parents.
tell Fiance HELL NO, ok put it more gently like it will just be too long, no one likes THAT many speeches, honestly.
Post # 4
Exactly!!! If we let them all talk, we will loose at least 30 minutes worth of venue time, which we only have for 4 hours!!… And I agree, If I was a guest I would be PISSED!!!
Post # 5
Ha. Tell your Fiance that they can all give him individual speeches another time…Seriously.
Post # 6
I would also let Fiance know he needs to put his GMs in their place. If they dont like the colors you chose, then tell them they can have the colors they want at THEIR wedding. I dont know why they are asking questions like that but I hope I dont have 2 deal with GMs like that!!! I dont want to have to cuss my FBILs out but I dont play that. Everyone knows not to cross me (except Future Mother-In-Law but she is VERY SOON about to find out) so I dont think there will be many problems out of my wedding party. Good luck to you. I wouldnt say curse them out, just put your foot down. You dont want them starting to think that they can just push you around. Stay firm like a mountain or you will forever be Gone with the wind.