(Closed) What’s up with the attitude at ‘another’ wedding forum

posted 6 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
Member
410 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

I’ve only been apart of this site…but ohhh what’s the other site…sounds juciy. *lol*

But I agree, this site is awesome! You get honesty from caring people. How awesome is that?

Post # 4
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9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

It doesn’t really matter does it? It’s like any other forum, some you jive with, some you won’t. I’ve given up on trying to figure out why people do what they do!

Post # 5
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2063 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

That act that way because they are allowed to behave that way. They are “allowed” to behave that way because no one who own the site happens to care if they are welcoming are not. 

I love the weddingbee….

Post # 6
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5273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I’ve never been on the forum of the other site, becuase when I was planning my wedding, I stummbled onto the Bee looking for tutorials on DIY invitations, which I found immediately, so I stayed. 🙂   

I think you will find that this site is an excellent resource not only with planning the specificities of your wedding, but being able to discuss the emotional aspects that come with planning a wedding, in an open and respectful manner.

Welcome!!!  

Post # 7
Member
810 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think they act that way because they can. People can turn nasty when they’re given a computer to hide behind and no one to call them out on it. 

I just joined another forum recently (not related to weddings/relationships) and realized after one post that it’s an awful place. The mods were nonexistant, and everyone was harsh and snarky. I know the mods here get crap sometimes for enforcing the rules, but seriously I think they’re a huge part of what keeps this place great! Hatefulness and snark are really nipped in the bud here, which makes it such a nice place!

Post # 8
Member
701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

This is the only forum I’ve ever seen with a “no snark” policy and I wish everyone else would adopt it too.

Post # 9
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7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I’ve never been on the other site and from what I’ve heard, I’m not missing anything.  I think that weddingbee has a great team of mods and hostesses that are very on top of things and are able to keep people in check.  Luckily, most people here keep themselves in check without help, but it’s nice to know that the mods are there to help when it’s needed!

Post # 10
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5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

uh yeah.  I was there for a while.  The vibe is completely different here.  No one thinks they are the “queen of the boards”.

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