(Closed) What’s with the snark-fest lately?

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
  • poll: Have you noticed this change recently?
    YES!! : (27 votes)
    28 %
    Maybe a little, but not as much as you're making it sound. : (24 votes)
    25 %
    Not really. I think it's still happy and helpful. : (30 votes)
    32 %
    It's been like this all along. : (9 votes)
    9 %
    Other- explain below. : (5 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    8353 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I am on here quite frequently, and I haven’t noticed any “snarkiness”. I still think this is a great place to share ideas and get advice.

    Post # 4
    Member
    5657 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2012

    There is a bit of snarkiness here and there, but it’s easy to ignore.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1313 posts
    Bumble bee

    I have been on here about 10 months or so and I think I noticed things getting a little more “drama-filled” maybe about 3-4 months ago?  I still love this place and keep myself out of conflict, but I do agree things have changed a bit.

    Post # 6
    Member
    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Actually, I feel that the snarkiness has seriously died down in the last few weeks. If you would have asked this question a month ago I would have voted yes but no, I don’t think the Hive has been snarky at all lately. Unless of course I’m missing all the drama inducing threads, which I don’t think is the case. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    1560 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I think that the posts that have to do with weddings specifically aren’t as bad, it’s when you venture outside of the wedding world. I’ve found I have to sift through the NWR/Baby stuff to even find much that pertains to me lately. The Not Wedding Related posts have seemed to be more grouchy…which is why I’ve avoided the boards more lately.  That’s my two cents…

    Post # 8
    Member
    1237 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    @UpstateCait: I agree with you, girl. Seems like the holidays mellowed this place out a bit. Or at least with all the proposal threads, the snarkiness is harder to find.

    Post # 9
    Member
    3167 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @UpstateCait: agreed. after the most recent ‘debacle’, things have actually been a lot calmer and less snarky.

    Post # 10
    Member
    1641 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    What I have noticed is there are some that seem to give unsolicited advice at times or tell other bees you “should” or “shouldn’t” do about various situations/topics and/or passing what appears to be judgment. Or using a lot of “never” and “always” statements about other bee’s personal lives (family/SO/money/kids/etc) Typically this occurs in the Not Wedding Related, but I have seen a tiny bit in the WR threads, too.

    I do think, for the most part, the threads are helpful and fun.

    Post # 11
    Member
    1222 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Actually, I think the past 2 weeks or so has been really calm. There hasn’t been as much traffic and a lot of people that are posting are the “usuals”.

    Post # 12
    Member
    2790 posts
    Sugar bee

    @UpstateCait: I agree. It was strippers are satans spawn and registry info in your invitations is the tacky of all tacky there for quite awhile. I think December has been much nicer then say September, October, November was.

    Post # 13
    Member
    118 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I agree with pp. For awhile it was getting pretty bad but I have noticed a change for the better in the last couple of weeks.  

    Post # 16
    Member
    971 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2008

    It’s all cyclical. 

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