- 3 years ago
- Wedding: October 2020 - Finger Lakes, NY
I’ve watched a version of B unfold at a bar with my SO and this chick we met and have seen on a writing forum here and there. He was careful about his drinks, but had a slight buzz. She was sloshed and started flirting with him. I was there next to him and was about to take bets on when she’d try to kiss him because she seemed terribly overexcited about meeting him in person finally.
We both laughed over it for a good two weeks after because we trust each other explicitly and know neither of us would ever get ourselves into a position where cheating would become a thing. So if B ever happened like that, we’d probably both laugh after I semi-teasingly reminded him he’s been with me 5+ years and that better be good enough.
That said, at C, I’d probably take a few weeks away to stay with my dad or friends while we talked things over and decided if we could heal our relationship. At D we’re done. No questions asked. He doesn’t get to keep the cat.