What\'s your number??

posted 6 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
268 posts
Helper bee

I think a persons “number” depends on a LOT of things. I started dating my FI in high school. So my number is 1. But if I hadn’t had a serious relationship through high school and college I imagine that my number would be higher by quite a bit. I think this because I wasn’t raised to believe that sex is bad. Babies before marriage was frowned upon, but the actual sex-acts weren’t.


Post # 3
5148 posts
Bee Keeper

ladymarian :  My husband is older than me, and while he started earlier than I did, he only beats my number by 3.  He was far more picky than I was.  Not including each other, we are 7 and 10 respectively.

Post # 4
6941 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Mine and my husband’s is 1 but we’ve been together since we were 18. 

Post # 5
368 posts
Helper bee

We’re in our late 20s. My number is 4, and my SO’s number is 1, assuming we’re limiting the number to penetrative sex. My SO was waiting til he found “the one” and was basically one of those “everything but penetration” type.

Post # 6
2445 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

My husband is 3 years older than me.  My number is 3 and his is somewhere around 15.  We met in our mid 20s.

Post # 7
2760 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I was my husband’s first (like a PP said, he wanted to wait for the right person for sex, but fooled around a bit). I had one serious relationship before I started dating my husband, so my number is 2. My husband and I started dating when we were 20, so I don’t find it odd that we have such low numbers. 

Post # 8
505 posts
Busy bee

Me: 3 

Him: 31

Post # 9
2965 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

Me? 1. My husband.

Husband? I believe 6 including me if I remember correctly.

Post # 10
1674 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Me: 4 

Him: He doesn’t know. And I don’t care. 

We are both in our 30’s. We both are clean and it lead to us being happy with each other. That’s all that matters. 

Post # 12
749 posts
Busy bee

I have no idea.  I’m sure if I wanted to sit down and think about it, I could probably come up with a probable range, but it’s not something thats ever occurred to me or has anyone ever asked me.  

Post # 13
5803 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2016 - Lola's Trailer Park

2 1/2 for me.

No clue about DH, don’t want to know and he wouldn’t ever tell me even if I did.

Post # 14
1704 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

Including each other:

Me: 4

Him: 1

We started dating when we were 20. My husband had only kissed a few other people than me so unlike some PPs hadn’t fooled around with anyone before me. I had a lot more encounters with fooling around than he did.


Post # 15
6624 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2050

Who knows, who cares?

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