(Closed) What\'s your number??

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 31
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283 posts
Helper bee

Me: 6

SO: no idea

I think this thread is interesting only because this is not something that I would ask many people. Definitely no judgement. I have a cousin who was shocked by my 6, but it’s substantially lower than many of my friends, especially those that remained single for much of their 20s. I love the range of responses. 

Post # 32
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345 posts
Helper bee

Me: 1

Him: No idea. Whatever it was, it wouldn’t change how I feel about him. 

Post # 33
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601 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Me: 10. I’m 27 yrs old

Him: 26. He’s 29 yrs old

Interesting reponses 🙂

Post # 34
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887 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2020

Me: 8

SO: 15

We are in our mid twenties. Cool thread! Not something you can really talk about too much in public, haha.

Post # 35
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1359 posts
Bumble bee

Me: Way, way higher than anyone else’s number in this post

Him: Less than half of my number, even though he’s 11 years older

I like sex. I’ve always been safe: Never gotten an STD, never had an unwanted pregnancy, and been emotionally content with each partner. 

Post # 36
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468 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

1.  I’m 38.

Post # 37
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184 posts
Blushing bee

It wouldn’t be my business but since you ASKED, yes I do think 31 is alot. 

My number is 1, we got together at age 24.

And I do think a person’s partner’s # is each other’s business if that is an important factor to someone’s relationship to them personally. It is to me, it is to my partner. Don’t ask don’t tell is also fine as long as you are on the same page.

Post # 38
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853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Me: 10

Him: 4

I am 3 years older. Doesn’t really matter anyway!

Post # 39
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2572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

None of your damn business. Also I stopped counting when I hit 15 but that was ten years ago…

I’ve never asked my Fiance. I bet mine is an order of magnitude more than his. 

Post # 40
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9 posts
Newbee

Me: 11, I think. 9 before my husband, and my husband was the 10th. I’ve been with 1 man since I’ve been seperated from my husband.

My husband: 1 (just me)

My current fling: No idea, but he’s very talented, and obviously excperienced, and 25 years older than me. So I’m sure his number is quite high. Don’t care. He’s like some kind of wizard in bed. It’s sorcery, I tell you.

Also, I love the people who like to comment “none of your business.” As if they are obliged to comment at all. Get over yourself…

Post # 41
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154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

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jooniper :  Her age is 31, her nr is 13…. just so you can base your judgment on the right numbers.

Post # 42
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390 posts
Helper bee

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katkah8 :  I was thinking the same thing. 😂

My number is higher than any number anyone’s mentioned so far. I don’t even know exactly what it is. Or care. 

Dh is around seven, I think? 

Post # 43
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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ladymarian :  My number is 3. My husband is 2. We met in our early/mid twenties. Our numbers  include each other. Our numbers probably would have been higher if we hadn’t met at that age and if we weren’t late starters!! 😉

Having said that I kissed lots of boys in my teen years (lost count but I’m sure I kissed 50+ boys in five years of high school)  but didn’t do more than kiss until I was 19 with a boyfriend. My husband had only kissed 3 girls including me.  It wasn’t religious based with him but he was just shy and according to his mates girls would like him and flirt but he was totally oblivious! I kissed him first on our first date and he still teases me about it all….. 

Post # 44
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2121 posts
Buzzing bee

1. I was 17 when we met. 

Post # 45
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2121 posts
Buzzing bee

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katkah8 :  Right?! It’s an online forum if internet strangers, if you don’t want to answer just don’t open the thread?! 

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