(Closed) What’s your reason to confide on here?

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
622 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Sometimes talking to my friends about weddings becomes a competition we are all getting married and its “but that was my color” and “i got this type of dress too” and really i would rather hash out my ideas with the creative ladies of the bee then talk my friends ears off (though some are wonderful and want to listen anyway) and then no one can steal my ideas πŸ™‚

and you get the perspective of so many other people that you would not get in your bubble of life its wonderful when its done respectfully.

My Fiance makes jokes about me and the bee because here I am at work…oh the bee…


Post # 4
2496 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

@CTbride2010: I agree about the competition thing.  When I was planning, I felt like I had all these great ideas (and still do πŸ˜‰ ) and didn’t want to tell anyone IRL about what I was planning because there were still girls planning their own weddings.

The nice thing for me was they all got married first, so after their weddings I felt more free to let my secrets out to my friends and family, so I posted less stuff on here.

Post # 5
6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

I post on here because most of my real-life friends are guys, and the Bees are some of the only girls I know who aren’t super catty. I know ALL girls aren’t super catty, but I work in an industry with some pretty catty girls…

Post # 6
289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I post on here for so many reasons..for opinions,advice, and to vent so I don’t snap on my Future Mother-In-Law πŸ™‚ I completely agree with your decision to not apoligize for what you said. If anything she should realize how she was acting..and apoligize for it! One of my first posts was about Future Mother-In-Law drama..and a small part of me hoped she would find it..so she could realize how crazy she is acting!! 

Post # 7
335 posts
Helper bee

i originally found the bee by stumbling across some DIY thing, but i stayed when i found the waiting boards and realized i wasn’t alone! i have a lot of girlfriends, but none that would be up for talking about the woes of waiting or relationship talk because so few of them have actually been in very serious relationships. it’s nice to have somewhere to go for advice like this!

Post # 8
2584 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m here because I don’t want to bore everyone in RL with too much wedding talk. And I don’t want to ruin the surprises of the day for anyone, like with the dress, flowers, music, etc. And I love seeing everyone else’s rings, dresses, proposals, and problems that I can help with or be prepared for πŸ™‚

Post # 9
1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m on here a lot right now because we just moved so I’m bored and have no friends.


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