(Closed) What's your SO like when he is angry?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 47
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

@Carolyn72:  Same.

He pretty much shuts down. No expression. No words. I feel like a bully sometimes because I’ll say things just to get some emotion or a reaction. He’s only been SUPER angry once, and he hit our dining room wall. That was one of our ugliest fights to date. Sh*t happens when you’ve been together for a number of years and gone through some tough stuff. Honestly? I’m worse.

I have a temper. I have a long fuse, but when I’m there…I’m there. When I’m TRULY angry I cry, yell or just get very harsh in tone, and use horrible language. I’m even guilty of throwing things on the two occassions that I’d lost my cool completely. I have a boxing bag that I got when I was kickboxing and it helps relieve the tension. Not something I’m proud of, but I’m honest. When I’m just pissed, I shut down verbally but it’s not in an “unreadable” way. I wear my emotions on my sleeve, so I’m quiet but you can tell I’m pissed. I also get really sarcastic.

Post # 48
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Helper bee

My bf gets sooo quiet when he is mad – if I am yelling at him he will bark up a few times and say something but he mostly just takes it and sits in silence he really hates confrentation

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