(Closed) What's your SO's most annoying waiting habit? :-P

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
241 posts
Helper bee

Ha my SO’s annoyinng waitingg habit is either showig me pics of diamonds, or pics of specs from his phone… AND asking when our cut off time is….knowing full well that its not a real cut off time lol 

Post # 5
223 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

my boyfriend says things like “its just a ring because we are already living together,raising a child, and finically together” etc.. then when I say something “well if its just a ring why don’t you just ask already?” and he goes “no because it has to be speical ….grrrr..

Post # 6
1540 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

He’s made a habit of not asking me to marry him! Like every day he does his!


Post # 7
352 posts
Helper bee

My boyfriend has made it pretty clear an engagement is at least a year away, but he LOVES talking about our cake toppers… like whenever we have an inside joke he’ll be like “oh! we should use that for our cake toppers!” and i’m like “ummmm we’ll decide on those when we GET ENGAGED.

Post # 8
363 posts
Helper bee

My SO does that too, OP. I think the most annoying habit of my man is how sometimes he will be all nice and romantic and he will say sweet things and then we have sex and then all of a sudden no more being sweet to me until he wants sex again. I have informed him that I have noticed this pattern (it happened like 7 separate occasions), I am not impressed, and I don’t want to have sex with someone who can only be nice and say cute things when he wants something. It remains to be seen if things will change ;p.


Second most annoying habit is when I will ask for a time frame or estimate when we’ll be going out or something and he just says something like “after work” or “later.” How hard could it be to give a fucking time estimate for anything? It’s like he thinks I have nothing better to do all day than wait for a text that he’s on the way…uh no I need to make plans. He seems to be the only person who has no idea how long tasks should typically take. 

Post # 11
314 posts
Helper bee

He always asks me about everything from have I started looking at dresses to my thoughts on marrying him. lol Sweet but sooooo hard!!!!

Post # 12
2571 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Whenever my SO gets drunk, and we are at a bar with his buddies, he loudly refers to me as his “future wife” and talks about “Plan A, Plan B, or Plan C for how he wants to propose.” It’s so annoying! If I’m a “future wife,” then ASK ME ALREADY!!! Foot in Mouth

Post # 13
7211 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

Ugh. Talking about how much weddings cost/how much rings cost. He’s very responsible with money… not cheap by any means, but it very aware of how much he’s spending. He get SUPER nervous when the idea of spending thousands comes up, which it does since I’m helping my best friend plan her budget wedding right now. It makes me feel like he resents having to buy me a ring. 🙁

Post # 14
2999 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I’m no longer waiting but my now Fiance would only refer to our future wedding as an “event” he would never say the word “wedding” or “marriage” or “engagment”.  He would just say things like “oh that would be nice for the event”  LOL

Post # 15
1979 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@Lily_of_the_valley:  That is hilarious!

I get annoyed bc SO says that he can’t wait til all the engagement and wedding phase is over- that it is too stressful and makes all women crazy.  I want to say, “How would you know? We aren’t engaged yet!”  But instead I say something sweet like- “I am so excited to spend the rest of our lives together!”

Post # 16
241 posts
Helper bee

@MexiPino:  Ahhh! My SO is the same!! I dont reLly blame them.. Its crazy expensive ! Wahhh

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