(Closed) Whelp the RSVP date came and went.

posted 8 years ago in September 2010
Post # 1
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

And we still have 58 outstanding.  Le sighe.

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Welcome to the most frustrating part of wedding planning! Good luck!!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper

I think that’s about how many we had outstanding too. Sorry to hear mermaid! Start the email and phone calling!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

LOL see my post from a few minutes ago. I’m in the same boat and I only have a week before I need final numbers. I hate people sometimes.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Yup, I am almost there with you mermaid! RSVP date is this THursday (the 5th), we have around 25 missing cards and have not received any RSVP cards in the mail since last Thursday! SO frustrating!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow!  Our RSVP date isn’t until the 18th of this month and we are getting married on the 5th.  Those are really early RSVP deadlines, are you caterers just really anxious to know numbers that early?

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

We mailed out 68 invitations and got slightly over 30 reply cards back. The only reasonable explaination I can think of is that putting a pre-paid reply card in the mail is too hard.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Curlysue: My RSVP date is the 5th of August. It states in the catering contract that I signed that final numbers must be submitted 10 days before our event. I felt most comfortable having a couple of weeks to track people down and it made sense to send out the invites early because we had a lot of Out of Town guests invited.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Curlysue: Our RSVP date is the 20th and we’re getting married on the 5th as well.

We actually have to let the caterer know on the 20th the final headcount but I figure we’ll just start tracking people down on the 16th (chances are if they haven’t sent their RSVP back by then they’re not going to).

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My RSVP date is the 20th.  I sent out invites early last week. I am REALLY hoping that I do not have the same problem. Why is dropping a prepaid envelope in the mail so difficult!??!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Curlysue: Yeah our initial headcount is due Aug 15th for our 9/4 wedding.  Final is due 9/1.

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I feel your pain. My fiance had to tell me not to make a list of the late/non-repliers so that, should they get married, I can retaliate. He said it was petty 😛

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Mermaid1082:I feel your pain.  I’d be celebrating if I was only missing 58 responses though … our RSVP date has passed and we’re still waiting to hear back from 98 people.  That’s more than half the people we invited.  

Post # 15
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

We had 70% outstanding at the RSVP date.  Brutal.

Post # 16
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

We had 70% outstanding at the RSVP date.  Brutal.

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