(Closed) Whelp the RSVP date came and went.

posted 10 years ago in September 2010
Post # 33
1518 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Im getting worried about this too!! Our RSVP date is  Aug 11th  and we have so many people yet to hear from! 

Post # 34
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

my RSVP date is for 09/01. I mailed the invites on 08/14. Now I’m thinking was 2 weeks really enough time for ppl to RSVP, They are all local, firends and fmaily no Out of Town guests! but I gave my self 1 week to hunt ppl down to make sure i have my head count in by 09/11 (deadline set by venue)

Wedding date 09/25

Post # 35
546 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Wow really!  I think by a week before the wedding I had maybe 5 outstanding.  I pretty much just talked to them dbefore the rsvp date though and got it worked out.  Still have those couples though that say “well i’m coming but i’m not sure about a date.  Just put me down for two.”  AUUGGGH!!! Major pet peeve! People do not understand the expenses and etiquette behind weddings.

Post # 36
43 posts
  • Wedding: September 2010

ours were due august 15th, and we had a 50/50 response rate… grr.  but even the people who rsvp’ed on time are giving me problems… one couple even called my mother to tell her that since we “reserved 3 seats” for them, and their daughter “is only 2 and won’t eat much”, they’re bringing their 12 year old niece as well… um… no!  you can’t do things like that, people!

the rsvps honestly are such a frustrating part of wedding planing, especially for us detail-oriented, need to do everything ourselves ahead of time kind of wedding planners!

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