(Closed) When are you giving your bridesmaids their gifts?

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I don’t think so…could you ask the BMs to meet you a tad earlier, or stay a tad later?  This way you have a bit of privacy but still can give them the gifts ahead of time, 

Post # 4
2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I agree with Sandy Toes that you should do it privately at the Bachelorette.  A friend of mine gave the gifts out at the beginning of her bridal shower.  It was ackward…

Post # 5
645 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I wouldn’t give them gifts when there are other girls around… If any of the other bach party girls were already a little hurt they weren’t in the wedding, giving the Bridesmaid or Best Man gifts could add insult to injury.

Figure out a time when you can give them privately… Are you doing a brunch while you get ready for the wedding? Or are you all getting ready together before the wedding? You can also give them to each girl individually.

Post # 6
735 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yes, I agree. You should give them their gifts privately without any non bridesmaids around.

Post # 7
482 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

hi there!


What are you getting your bridesmaids?? Im so stuck!

Ive found some some great stuff online but they don’t deliver to Ireland,

I’m travelling home from sydney for it so trying to keep my luggage to a minimum!


any ideas?

Post # 8
7294 posts
Busy Beekeeper

i will be giving it to them likely individually when i get a chance to in the few days i see them before the wedding in Jamaica.  or maybe i will invite them all to my hotel room.

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