(Closed) When are your easiest/hardest “waiting” days and is there a pattern?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: When is waiting the hardest for you?
    My experience is random/depends on outside factors usually (please explain) : (9 votes)
    90 %
    I have the hardest time during the week : (1 votes)
    10 %
    I have the hardest time during the weekends : (0 votes)
    other : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1543 posts
    Bumble bee

    Yeah, that sounds like me, too. Almost all of last week, I had knots in my stomach, but come Friday night, and all through the weekend, my tummy was fine. Read: I was chill about waiting. This morning though, the knots and flippity-floppityness is back. So, yeah, the weekdays are harder, the weekends are better. Wonder why? Anyone have thoughts to why this is?

    Post # 5
    Member
    870 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    For me it’s almost always related to external things. Like other people getting engaged, weddings, babies. Anything that reminds me I’m still waiting around for him and our future together. :

    Post # 6
    Member
    442 posts
    Helper bee

    For me, I’ve noticed it’s not even so much a certain day really… it’s just when I’m alone. When I’m with my SO, I just enjoy myself. Those time I’m alone, I am able to distract myself a bit, but more often than not, my mind goes back to daydreaming lol.

    My SO actually pointed out another time when the issue really gets to me… and that’s during ‘that time of the month.’ He said he’s noticed in the past when I would bring it up, it would be like, the week before that arrives. As soon as he had said that, I realized it’s totally true! I guess I’m just more sensitive around that time and it gets to me more.

    I also agree with what Taylor4 said, external things affect me at times, too.

    Post # 7
    Member
    5371 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

    @Taylor4: I second that! (:

    I also find that I don’t think about it as much during the week because I’m busy with school work and classes.

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