(Closed) When did it feel real to you?

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
3000 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think it’s good to not me in full wedding-planning mode at this point for you! We took about a month after getting engaged before we actively started planning. We wanted to have time to enjoy the moment and share in the excitement with our family and friends.

Once you start looking at venues, dress shopping, picking color schemes, etc. it will feel a lot more real πŸ™‚

Post # 4
857 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

The thing is, for me, it still doesnt feel real! We’ve booked our venue, met with caterers, and I picked out a dress! I plan many events for work, so to me, this is just like that … only it’s for me! 

Post # 5
915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

It doesn’t feel real at all for me yet. Maybe it will sink in a bit more after I get a dress, but it feels sometimes like I’m planning an elaborate party that may never happen. 

Post # 6
687 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Nothing feels real for me yet, can’t wait to get that feeling of “wedding jitters” πŸ˜€

Post # 7
715 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Today, I changed my countdown in my kitchen to day 49 and it’s starting to feel real.  I’m feeling all jittery and can’t focus on anything for more than a few minutes at a time.  I’m kinda feeling sorry for everyone around me if this is what I’m like on day 49 lol

It’s only been in the last week or so that it’s started to feel real though, so you might have a ways to go…

Post # 8
890 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

It depends on the person i think! lol I am less than 3 months away from our big day and everything down to the last detail is finished and it still hasn’t hit us yet :))  My mom and aunty have a bet when it will feel real to me.  My mom thinks the night before our wedding during reherasal and my aunty thinks when they surprise me with the bridal shower lol.  So will see who wins!! πŸ™‚ I personally think it will be the week of my wedding! lol 



Post # 9
3572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

It didn’t totally hit me until I picked up my dress the week before the wedding. 

Post # 10
9540 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Yeah, it doesn’t feel real for me yet either.  I have a venue, photographer, and a dress.  I’m sure it’ll only hit me that day…haha.

Post # 12
10453 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

I’ve been engaged 9 months now and the wedding is still 17 months away. I think once we hit that magical “less than a year” it will be a big milestone for how I feel. 

Post # 13
314 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I have a venue, photographer, videographer, caterer, dress, and cake… but it still doesn’t feel real. I’ve kind of been wondering the same thing. πŸ™‚

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