When did you have your bachelorette party?

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 16
1743 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I’m night doing a bach,  but we are doing a spa  day the week of the wedding since we are waiting for everyone to be in town for it. 

Post # 17
377 posts
Helper bee

Since they are making the effort to shell out a lot of money on a destination bach for you, I would be flexible on the date. I know it would be nicer and feel more bridal if you had it closer to your wedding, but honestly it’s really nice of them to do this. My BMs are all out of state too, and only 2 can actually come to a destination bachelorette due to cost, even though it made sense at the time given distance. Also, think of it this way – the earlier you do it, the less likely people will be to cancel for money related reasons. If you put it close to the wedding date, people with financial constraints might be forced to choose between attending one or the other.

Post # 18
44 posts
  • Wedding: June 2018

All of my bridesmaids live far from me and it would have been too much to have them all travel at a different time. So my Maid/Matron of Honor and I are going to have our own weekend away  a month after the wedding. I don’t need a big crazy send off. 

Whatever works best for you and your ladies. 

Post # 19
1481 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

SVandy60918 :  we have the same bach party and wedding dates! Lol

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