(Closed) When did you know that you loved SO?

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@mrssoontobeh:  It only took me a few weeks to love him and know he was the one. I dont even know why or what happened.. but I knew   love him more every day πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

It was love at first sight. I couldn’t believe it because I am such a cynic and didn’t actually believe in that at all, but there it was. I looked at him and I kind of got lost for a moment, and I knew with this weird certainty that I was going to do everything in my power to get him, and if I succeeded, that things would ultimately work with us. I suppose I could have been wrong, but I wasn’t. It was a really unsettling and scary feeling, and came with huge responsibility, but I wouldn’t trade the experience for anything.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

After I got a look at those baby-blues of his…they told me everything I needed to know!

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@EffieTrinket:  We’re like this.

I can’t remember not loving him – from the moment we met.  That moment stands out in my mind, in slow motion.  Everything about it, even the words he first said to me, I’ll never forget it.  It was amazing.  I heard his voice speak to me, turned my head, saw him – and KNEW  he was the ONE.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I wish it was love at first sight, but sadly no, it was a little lust, a couple years in between, more lust, and then the first time we had a conversation just he and I over the phone… We were talking about our favorite sounds, and that was it! πŸ™‚ I remember being at my nephews birthday party, and I kept checking for texts, because I HAD to talk with this amazing guy! Somewhere in the middle of that all day convo I just knew he was it.

Good thing too, because a week later I was talking to a friend and she said my ex’s name, and I literally sat there dumbfounded for a moment thinking “ex’s name who?!” LOL she says that is when she knew I had found him.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I don’t think there was an exact moment. I loved him very early on though. He is just the sweetest person. He had a very tough life growing up and has overcome many obsaticles.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

We were friends long before we started dating, but I had always had a crush on him.  The first time I saw his dark brown eyes, I melted.

I distinctly remember the day I knew I loved him- We were hanging out (as friends) when he offered me a snack.  He asked me if I’d like some string cheese, I replied that I’d have one if he had one, and he told me he hated cheese.  I thought, “That’s ridiculous!  Who hates cheese?  I could never marry a man that didn’t have the same passion for cheese as I do.  That sucks because I think I love him.”

We started dating a couple weeks later.

Yeah, weird.  But it’s the truth.

ETA- If anyone is wondering, it turns out that marrying someone who doesn’t love cheese isn’t actually a deal breaker.  He’s since aquired a taste for white cheeses, and I’ve learned to cook foods without gobs of yellow colored dairy…I simply add it to my plate afterwards.  πŸ˜›

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

For me it was probably when I realized that I was willing to fly over 2000 miles away to a country I’d never been to before to meet him in person. Before that I “thought” I loved him but was a bit unsure. But when I started contemplating meeting him after I’d vowed to never be in a long distance relationship again (had one with an ex that ended horribly) I knew I was in love, even if I was in denial for awhile, haha.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

When I realized how disappointed I was when I thought he wasn’t coming to work one day, because we would talk and be BFF-y when he did. I actually wrote in my diary that I thought I was falling in love with him.

He ended up being only an hour late and I smiled so wide my face could have split. It was awesome.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I feel like I have always loved my DH but the moment I was certain was when he had a stroke and I freaked out. It hurt to imagine my life without him. I told him then and there that I loved him. πŸ™‚ 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@LaCroix:  Its funny because I also met my DH at work and when we started dating I would get so happy when he would walk by my office. πŸ™‚ I still do four years later. 

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@LindsayMaree:    Hates cheese?!?   I cannot even begin to imagine.

You’re a strong and patient woman.  πŸ˜‰

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