(Closed) When did you know that you loved SO?

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
951 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I knew my SO was it from the beginning . He’s an amazing boyfriend I just love him to death!

Post # 18
318 posts
Helper bee

I fell in love with him and knew he was the one probably around the 4 or 5 month mark. One moment in time that made me realize the depth of my love was when I saw him playing with his nephews and neice when I went over one after noon. I thought what an amazing father he would be one day to our kids ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 19
133 posts
Blushing bee

I realized I loved my SO when I went to a USC football game with my friends and was hurting so much he wasn’t there. He text me to see how I was doing, and a tear came to my eye. I thought, “Damnit!!…it is what it is.” LOL. I told him I loved him later that night and he said, “Finally!! Cuz I have loved you since day 1.” ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 20
1237 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Sunfire:  Hahaha I know! I couldn’t fathom how anyone in the world could hate my favorite food!  He choked on melted cheddar when he was a kid and has had an aversion ever since.

And now he’s vegan, so when I want something cheesy, we have completely seperate meals (I call them “fend for yourself” nights- We each make our own single serve dinners.  Win-win!).

Post # 21
3218 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I knew about 2 months is when I was dying to say “I love you” but didn’t want to be the first to say it. (but I was ultimately the first… DAMN).

I knew because he was everything my ex was + the few things the ex was missing. My ex was the second best guy I know… he just wasn’t right for me.

Post # 22
1075 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I can say that he told me he loved me first we had only been dating for 3 months and he said it is okay if I am not ready to tell him but he knows I do; when I feel safe and comfortable I will let him know and say it. I was nervous and unsure of my feelings because it happened so fast and as time went on and my fears subsided and I realize that he was real and truly did love me. I felt safe to express my feelings and 2 months later I told him that I loved him.

Post # 23
697 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Ha…it was within a week of our first date.  I am a single-mom which he already knew.  Anyway, he asked me what I was doing after work a few days after our first date.  I said I had to go to the grocery store to buy some baby food.  He asked me which store I was going to and he actually showed up in the baby aisle to shop with me.  Obviously I didn’t just blurt out that I love him right then and there…but about a month later.  ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 24
98 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I hate to be called cutesy names like ‘baby’, or ‘sweetheart.’ My dad is the only person who has ever been able call me pet names without making me feel weird. The first time DH called me ‘baby’ I braced for impact. I was thinking “Great, now I have to break up with him too,” but it was actually nice for once, instead of making me feel nauseous. He was just different, in a good way of course. 

Post # 25
28 posts
  • Wedding: September 2013

We started off long distance, and even though I loved our *long* conversations, I remember sitting across from him in the Olive Garden (of all places) and thinking, “It’s going to be like this forever.” And so far, it has been. ๐Ÿ™‚ 

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