(Closed) When did you lose your vcard?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How old were you the first time you had sex? (vaginal, not oral)
    12-13 : (14 votes)
    2 %
    14-15 : (122 votes)
    16 %
    16-17 : (226 votes)
    29 %
    18 : (136 votes)
    18 %
    19-21 : (136 votes)
    18 %
    22-24 : (64 votes)
    8 %
    25-29 : (32 votes)
    4 %
    older than 29 : (5 votes)
    1 %
    Haven't had sex yet : (40 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
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    318 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I was 19, but I think things have changed since I was that age…I have friends that are teachers and their stories shock me.  Also, my 12-year-old cousin was telling me stuff her best friend does and I can’t believe it. 

    Good for you for sticking with you beliefs though!  Whatever the reason, I think it’s really respectable!

    Post # 4
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    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I was 18. Felt like I was on the older end of the curve then too as a second semester senior in high school

    Post # 5
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    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I was 17 which was older than most of my friends. It sickens me to think that elementary school kids are already having sex. 

    Post # 6
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    542 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I was 20, and probably a bit older than both. Both of my younger (still teenage) siblings have also lost theirs. Crazy! My parents have neighbors with an only daughter who is 11. I have heard some crazy stuff about her. For one, she hooked up with my 18-year-old sisters ex bf who was like 17 at the time. GROSS, and sooo weird. To each their own I guess. I just never would have been ready for intimacy at such a young age.

    Post # 7
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    3525 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I was 17–which is, I guess, “old” now, at least in comparison to the 12-year-olds! I was the second one in my group of friends to lose it.

    Post # 8
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    105 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I was 17 and now that I have a daughter entering the tween years wish I could tell her I waited until marriage. However, we do have age-appropriate discussions about sex and respect, which is more than I ever received at her age (12 years).

    Post # 9
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    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I was 14. I was the first one of my friends, and even though I don’t regret it I do wish I had waited for someone special. 

    ETA: Well, I did think he was special at the time. Then he turned abusive almost immediately after we started having sex… Soooo yeah. 

    Post # 10
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    3624 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I was 18, probably the last of my friends to lose it.

    Post # 12
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    660 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I wanted to wait until I was married for cultural reason but then curiosity got the best of me and did the deed at the ripe old age of 26 with this hot guy I was seeing. I’m so shallow, I blame the six pack abs. LOL!  The relationship didn’t last but I don’t regret it. 🙂

    Post # 13
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    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I had just turned 15, it was with my high school sweetheart, the quintessential “boy next door” (we were together for 4 years), and I don’t regret it in the least. 

    My step-sister was 11. 

    Post # 14
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    1750 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @ddw: I was 16 when I tried it for the first time. I was not all that impressed and felt I needed to wait a little longer. I did not become active on a regular basis until 21.

    Post # 15
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    3871 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I was 17 but it does scare me that kids these days are having periods at 11 and sex about that age.  My niece is 16 and I really really hope she hasn’t lost her Vcard yet or at least not when she was 12 or 13.

    I’m a bit worried about when I have a daughter. I’m hoping by the time I have kids (in a year or so) and by the time she is about that age, that the trend is for kids to have sex later rather than sooner.

    ETA: Oh I guess I have to add that I lost it to my now Darling Husband.

    Post # 16
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    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I know a girl who lost her virginity at 9 years old…. Surprised

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