(Closed) When did you move in together?

posted 4 years ago in 20 Something
Post # 61
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

We still haven’t moved in together even though we are going to TTC next month! Haha. A little backwards. We are both relatively recently divorced (~2 years) and we both own our own homes, which are literally 4 blocks from each other. So we spend every night together at one house or the other. We have enjoyed having our own spaces after being previously married, but still spend a ton of time and every night together.

We will move in together this spring though…. paying two mortgages is starting to be annoying. Imma rent my cute little house and move me and my three kitties in with him.

We are mid 30s and mid 40s. At your age, I would wait for at least a year or more. There’s no rush, and making your own home all by yourself is such an awesome part of being a young adult. 

Post # 62
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

We will be moving in together just before our 9 year dating anniversary and 6 year engagement anniversary. We were mentally and emotionally ready to move in together years ago, though we weren’t financially able to.

Every couple is different anyway, it all comes down to what the two of you want and are ready for.

Post # 63
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Newbee

After just under three months together. It sounds crazy to most, but we have been living together for almost three years now! When you know you know ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 64
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Busy bee

Rather rapidly. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 65
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2017

We officially moved in together at 3ish years, when he bought a house. Before, we had separate apartments and there was an 8ish month span that he lived with his mom and weren’t allowed sleepovers. 

Post # 66
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

We moved in together after we got married. (We were dating for two years.) I’m 22, and my hubby is 29.

Post # 67
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Helper bee

We are about to move in together. I’ll be 24 and he’s 25. And we’ve been dating a year and a half. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 68
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2000

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michik :  I met my husband when I was 16 he was 19 (I lied about my age) bo judgment please ๐Ÿ˜‰

we ended up moving in together about 7 months in with parental approval we hot married when I was 18 been going strong ever since !

do I recommend what we did no but it worked for us but I also think you know when something is just right…

ny hubby thinks I am a dork but as soon as I met him I felt safe for lack of a better way to explain it maybe I felt at home i dunno but I say think about everything throughly before making the move..

Post # 69
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

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michik :  after he proposed.. 

Post # 70
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Busy bee

Like half a year. I was having serious health problems and it was hard being away from my family while physically ill and almost bed bound. He wanted to be able to care for me and moved me in. I got better but we already discovered we were so happy living together I never left! We signed a lease together as soon as his lease ended. 

Post # 71
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Newbee

We moved in almost a year after we started dating. He had already been in the area a year prior and he was only 30 minutes or so away. Got tired of living out of what I brought with me and I can see myself with him. Also, we’re both 20 going on 21 and it’s our 2nd year living together!

Post # 72
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Helper bee

Almost straight away…like literally almost straight away haha! We met whilst we were away so spent 3 days solidly together and then we spent a night apart. From then on I was at his house every night, He gave me a key after about 5/6 weeks and I started paying rent from about 5 months. We didn’t plan it that way believe us!! We just went with the flow. I was 29 he was 37.

 

Post # 73
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Worker bee

Started dating when we were 16 and 18, and now moving in together in September after college and grad school at ages of 24 and 26. Also getting engaged in August! 

Post # 74
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

We moved in together after 2 months. As crazy as that sounds it really didn’t feel crazy. It just felt right. 

Post # 75
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2019

We dated long distance for 3 years until he was able to move to my state and upon that we moved into an apartment together. We’ve lived together now for 4+ years and got engaged after two.

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