Post # 1
Was laying in bed yesterday and suddenly realized that my wedding is 169 days away…or 5 months and 17 days. I instantly felt intense panic…might have broke into a little bit of a sweat.
Not only do I only have about 50% of thigns completed but we also have to save around 10k between now and then…:| We don’t even have our guest list compelted.
Freaking out mode….AGHHH.
When did you start to feel the panic?
Post # 3
My wedding is the day before yours and this week is when I just started to panic! There’s still sooooooo much to do!
Post # 4
- Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast
I started to feel the pressure of getting things done about 3 months before the wedding. I was working lots of over time on a big, politically sensitive project; caring for my terminally ill Grandfather and dealing with a lot of family drama; and planning the wedding (pretty much on my own because I’m a control freak). Even so, the wedding was the bright and happy spot in my life, so I was glad to have the distraction.
Post # 5
My wedding is in 15 days.. and I honeslty don’t feel panicked or stressed.. every once in a while it’ll hit me “Hoyl crap, it’s so soon!” But it doesn’t scare me or make me nervous. I’m ready, I feel like I’ve been ready since the day we got engaged. I think it helps A LOT to accomplish as much as possible early on, then give youself the last month to just relax. I’m literally twiddling my thumbs with nothing left to do besides wait for April 20th to get here. Although, as we get close the weather is making me anxious..
Post # 6
@bretonvirgniia: Last night. Laying in bed. Realizing we now have less than 100 days. Holy crap!
Post # 7
haha it’s always when you’re laying in bed right!? It’s the moment you have a chance to think about your reality. Worst!!
Post # 8
I think I was distracted by our vacation to the bahamas so I didn’t think about it is much…now that I have no upcoming things to do I am in full panic freak out mode.
Post # 9
Getting married a week before you and started to really freak out around the six month mark! It’s just getting worse… hopefully it won’t just continue until the wedding date.
Post # 10
Mine is also in September but I havent freaked out yet. *fingers crossed*
Post # 11
Getting married in 25 days and I’m SO SO SO READY for it to come and go! 🙂
Post # 12
@bretonvirgniia: It comes and goes for me. Sometimes i’ll think things are going great, then i’ll start to think about all the little details and panic. We just combined checking accounts and afterword it kinda freaked me out…like now I don’t have my freedom to spend money without him knowing haha I’ve also had a lot going on in my life, so there are other stressors involved.
Post # 13
Mine is so soon. I’ve gone from freaking out to completely not caring. Just wanna get to the honeymooooooon!
Post # 14
I actually just recently starting having little minor freakout thoughts about it. Nothing insane yet, just eeeeesh. So much to do. It doesn’t help we’re also trying to buy a house.
Post # 15
Not outwardly panicking but I seem to be averaging 3 wedding nightmares a week and the wedding is still 5 months away = someone get me a valium! lol
Post # 16
- Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY
I just started to feel a little pressure (7 weeks out). EVERY ONE of my numerous DIY projects is 90% done. That’s a lot of unfinished shit.