(Closed) When Did You Suspect “The One”?

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think I took longer than anybody. I wonder what that says about me.

Post # 18
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m torn between two moments –

After a freak accident with a softball (I broke my jaws/cheek in five places) I had to refrain from brushing my teeth for nearly two weeks.  This was within the first three months of us dating and not only did I smell to high heaven but I also looked like a stroke patient.  I didn’t get full feeling or use of the left side of my face for nearly three months after surgery.  He stuck around!

The next was when we got quite drunk in college (about 10 months into our relationship) and he groggily said to me “I’m going to marry you one day.  I hope that’s okay with you!”  

I think the first gave me suspisions and the second sealed the deal!

Post # 19
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think I just always knew from the start of us, that he was the one. I just saw our life together there in that monent and in the future, never with out each other. I do have moments that remind (not like I ever forget ๐Ÿ™‚  ) me that he is the one. Like when I see him with little kids, it hits me that he is going to be the father of our children and it makes me smile! Just things like that.

Post # 20
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

It took about a month for us. He wore an Obama hat on a date to play Risk all night with me and my friends. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 21
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I had suspicions very early on – like, before our first date even occurred. We were just flirting at work, talking about how we both wanted to live somewhere fun, and he said “Let’s just move out to Hawaii and set up camp on the beach” and I got that feeling you get on rollar coasters when your stomach drops (in a good way!), thinking “He means THE TWO OF US, together.” Not that he meant that whatsoever, and not that I would condone moving thousands of miles away with a relative stranger to live, homeless, on the beach… but yeah, I got that feeling.

Post # 22
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

1) the first time I saw him..but of course I was like “no, not possible”

2) we went on a casual date and I blew him off for a couple of days seeing if he was really interested and not only did he call EVERY day, he asked me to be his gf on the 3rd day we knew each other! 

Post # 23
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Buzzing bee

I honestly wasn’t sure right away. I’ve always been somewhat of a commit-ophob so I have a hard time early on in relationships. But the first time I realized I was making plans with Fiance months and years in advance is when I realized I felt he was “the one.”

Post # 24
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

We were together less than a year when i first suspected it. I was sick and even after driving home 40 minutes after a 12 hour shift, he drove all the way back from Brooklyn to Long Island (another 45 min -1hr in traffic) to bring me juice and soup. And he stayed with me all night even though he had to wake up at 530am for work the next day ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Thats when i knew he truly cared about me!

Post # 25
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2011

When he took care of me while I was sick for an extended period of time. He would wake up repeatedly through the night, every night, when I had my “episodes”. He would hold my hand and get me water and medicine. There were days when I wouldn’t want to do anything, and wouldn’t feel like talking. He was the sweetest and most patient guy. He read me poems and short stories to keep me occupied. At that point I knew I could never leave this guy! He would be the one who would love me for better or worse, richer or poorer.

Post # 26
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I knew on our first date when he went around and opened the driver’s side door of my car for me. A guy had never done that for me and that, coupled with all the wonderful easy conversation we had made me know I had something special.

Post # 27
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

There was no magic moment for me.  From the beginning of the relationship he always talked about our relationship like we would be together forever.  I took it with a grain of salt thinking he was just like other guys who wouldn’t stick around.  It took me a while, but one day I realized I had no doubts about spending my life with this amazing man and no doubts that he doesn’t mean every word he says about spending the rest of our lives together. 

Post # 28
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

He always tells me he knew I was the right one when we went on our first date and I was wearing a white shirt. I ordered spaghetti and ended up with spaghetti sauce ALL over my shirt (and probably my face!). He thought that was so awesome and that I must of been ‘real’. 

Post # 29
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

When I saw him walk into my work. My stomach dropped, I couldn’t look at him without smiling, and I really didn’t even talk to him. Butterflies galore! It was solidified 1.5 months into our relationship when we went on our first trip and spent 4 days together. I didn’t get sick of him! He is also completely in love with his dog and I adore watching him with his pup as I picture our furry kiddo morphing into a beautiful child someday! 

Post # 30
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Busy bee

after a few nights of talking on the phone after our first date! we moved quick b/c i was moving oot and we had to decide if we were going to make it work or drop it.  we chose to make it work ๐Ÿ™‚

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