- 3 years ago
anonybee2016 : Congratulations!!!! I told my sister the day after I found out, my parents the day after that (so 4 weeks), DH’s parents/sister the following week and my Grandma the week after that (6 weeks). Everyone else has waited until after 12 weeks (boss at 15 weeks) with the rest of my family finding out last weekend at 17 weeks. I’m 18 weeks and some of my friends still don’t know but I’ve been pretty secretive about the whole thing. Cat’s going to be out of the bag very soon- within the past few days it’s become obvious to those who’ve seen me before that I’m pregnant!
I went through 22 months of infertility to get to this point including 2 IVF cycles so that’s clouded my feelings.
My thought for those I told early was that if I would share that I had a miscarriage, I should share that I am pregnant- it doesn’t make sense to only share the bad news!