Post # 1
My mom already knows that I’m pregnant (8w2d) and we have our first ultrasound tomorrow morning. We were thinking about waiting to tell my dad and my husband’s parents (and his sister and his grandparents) until 12 weeks but we’re getting together with them this weekend and it might be obvious anyway that I’m not drinking the copious amounts of wine that I usually do. Last time we got together it was for my SIL’s bf’s birthday and it was obvious that I wasn’t drinking then. Two times in a row and it seems like we should just break the news.
What did you do?
Post # 2
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
Personally, we wont be telling anyone until we are at 12 weeks or later, but that’s because I expect to have issues and I want to avoid the potential for a second conversation if the pregnancy doesn’t stick.
I just started telling people I’m on a new supplement from my doctor for a minderal decicienty that doesn’t allow me to drink. It’s benign enough no one is worried, but obscure enough no one can call my bluff.
Post # 3
DH told his mom while they were out on a walk, and I was at work. I was a little annoyed because I didn’t want her to know quite yet – she tends to be really annoying and over complicate things. I think I was just under 7 weeks.
I told my mom at just over 7 weeks, after a visit to the emergency room. I didn’t want to tell her over the phone, but I felt given what had just happened, I should.
Neither of our dads know…I’m debating if I want to tell mine at all, and DH will probably tell his dad at some point in the next couple months, but we don’t see either of them much anyway.
Post # 4
We told our immediate family the day after we found out. We also told a few very close friends the next week. The world at large, we told around week 8-10.
Post # 5
If you want to wait, maybe just wait and see if they say anything about not drinking? If they bring it up, it could be the perfect time to tell them.
I’ve actually thought about this before (we’re years from TTC) – I always have wine when I’m with my family, so my mom will definitely know something’s up. I don’t think I’ll be able to avoid telling her and my dad right away. We don’t see FI’s family very often, so I’m hoping to be able to wait until at least 12 weeks, but knowing him, he’ll want to tell his parents right away.
Post # 6
We shall be telling the parents at the weekend (8+3) but that’s because Ive been poorly with morning sickness so a lot a work now know. We will wait to tell the rest of the family until 12 weeks
Post # 7
It’s not a bad idea but his family is extremely polite. They would just realize what’s up but not say anything. I think his mom suspects anyway and it’ll take some of the excitement out of telling them if it’s not a surprise at all. I mean, it’s probably already not a surprise given where we are in our lives but I was hoping for a good freak out from my Mother-In-Law 🙂
Post # 8
We told our parents at 6.5 weeks. I probably would have waited until after our 8 week ultrasound, but it was Christmas and it just seemed right to tell them then.
Post # 9
We told at 8 weeks via facetime. It was Christmas so it made it a little more special 🙂
Post # 10
If you aren’t quite ready yet pomegranate juice in a wine glass looks pretty convincing. Maybe keep some in your purse then sneak off to switch them.
Post # 11
We told my parents around 8 weeks, and his around 13 weeks after we’d had the NT scan and gotten our genetic test results back.
Post # 12
We told both set of parents at 6 weeks. Rest of the world knew at 12 weeks when we heard the heartbeat
Post # 13
We told my parents at 6 weeks, because they had come to town to visit and noticed about, oh 17 seconds into their arrival that I wasn’t drinking wine. I’m too predictable! haha
We told my siblings and DH’s parents at 8 weeks because it was Christmas day 🙂
We called the rest of our extended family at 12 weeks to tell them, and my DH has told all of his friends, but I am holding off on telling my friends, only because I want to do it in person, and the next time I’ll be in my hometown is the end of the month!
So far, no one who knows has posted on social media, so we’re pretty lucky that we have people who respect us so we can take our time telling people.
Post # 14
We told my parents at about 9 weeks, and my husband’s parents at 12 weeks – we didn’t want to tell either much earlier than 8-9 weeks, and we wanted to tell each in person, so that’s why they were told at different times. We made it public to everyone else between 13-14 weeks.
Post # 15
We told our parents and our extended family (both of our extended families are very small) on Christmas day at 8 weeks. We made it public to everyone else at 13 weeks.