(Closed) When did your fiance ask his groomsmen to be in the wedding?

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
1537 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

My man asked right away and so did I. I think we pretty much asked people the week or two after our engagement, but they’re all our best friends so I think they expected it anyway.

Post # 4
391 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

He was suppose to ask shortly after our engagement. We got engaged in May. We gave him a “deadline” of September. He asked in Oct and wedding is in Jan. He was dreading picking someone to stand with him.

Post # 5
1056 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

We’ve already asked ours and I have yet to be engaged, but it’s coming! LOL  We already knew.  However he is still trying to figure out a third.  If he gets a third I can have a fourth…if not oh well.

Post # 6
6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Fiance did it a couple of weeks after we got engaged after I bugged him about it, but he already pretty much knew who he was going to have.

Post # 7
786 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Fiance is going to have 4 groomsmen so he asked them as he went…probably all together about a month after the engagement. The last one lives out of the country so we asked him when he came back to the States. We already knew they would do it for they are family and a few close friends. Me on the other hand…I asked my Bridesmaid or Best Man the day I got engaged!

Post # 8
13096 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

We both did a couple weeks after getting engaged.  We both knew really quickly who we wanted to ask so why not let them know as soon as possible!

Post # 9
56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Mine insisted that he didn’t need to ask or say anything – “Don’t worry about it, they know.”  How do they know?!?! “They just know”.  That didn’t fly and I insisted he call them. Not sure timewise when it was though, 10months out?

Post # 10
150 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I asked as I told them I was engaged, they are my closest friends and family.  the only one I didn’t ask with the rest was his sister because I left that up to him if he wanted her in it.  Fiance on the other hand STILL has to ask 1 more.  he tried telling me he has until January because that is when they have to get fitted for the tuxes. I told him he has until the end of November!

Post # 11
4385 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

He asked in August for our May wedding. I asked right away, but it was an easier decision for me!

Post # 13
384 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My Fiance asked his best man about a month ago.  He asked a second Groomsman last week, but has yet to ask his brother.  I think part of it boils down to the fact that he really doesn’t want to ask his brother.  I think 5-6 months out is probably a good point for the groom to start asking his guys.

Post # 15
6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

we are almost 3 months away! yay! and he sitll hasnt asked them! but promises to.

luckily most of them are family..we know they will all be there but still he needs to officially ask. Guys just dont think like we do. i asked my girls right after i got engaged.

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