(Closed) When do I really need to pick them — Or will 2 look weird?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Don’t pick anyone just to pick someone, you will regret it.  I just watched a friendship get ruined becuase a bridesmaid created more drama than helping the bride.  It got to the point that she had to ask her to leave the wedding party and replaced her with another girl.  So my advice is to wait and pick someone you really feel will support you with any project you decide to take on and will stay up till 3 am making your dream favors with you if needed. 

Post # 4
134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I agree don’t pick for the number pick for the people.

Post # 5
331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I wanted none, then Fi really wanted a best man, so we ended up with two each, then he added a third, so I have two, he has three. Ditto the “don’t ask for the sake of asking”. Two (or uneven) is just fine!

Post # 6
529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

It definitely will NOT look weird to only have two attendants each.  My husband and I each only had one (MOH and BM).  I’m in a wedding this June where there’s only two on each side.  So definitely don’t feel like you NEED to have three just to have more or something.  Two is PLENTY!

And I agree with the others – pick people because you WANT them in your party and with you on your big day, not because you want a certain number of people.

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