(Closed) when do I send out my invitations?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2634 posts
Sugar bee

I think generally they get mailed 6-8 weeks before the wedding.

Post # 4
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Agreed.  6-8 weeks ahead.

Post # 5
408 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Agreed with PP….find out when you need a final headcount….estimate how long it may take you to contact guests who don’t rsvp on time and set the rsvp accordingly. Also, if you have setup a hotel room block, when is the deadline (typically a month before the wedding), so be sure to allow guests enough time to receive and make travel arrangements.

Post # 6
671 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

I sent mine out exactly 8 weeks in advance, since my wedding is a Destination Wedding and people need time to plan/book flights, etc.  And I had sent out Save-The-Date Cards six months in advance.  I think with DWs, it’s imporant to get invitations out earlier than usual. 

Post # 7
1956 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

So wierd bc I just looked on my Knot checklist and they say to mail the invites out 3 months in advance, which I have never heard of! So now I’m confused…I always thought the 8 weeks was pretty standard…

Post # 8
7053 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’d go w/ the 8 weeks.  That is what I’ve usually heard of.

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