- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
So, I made the decision over the summer to have my bridesmaids wear yellow shoes with their grey dresses. Yellow , green, and gray are my colors and I think yellow looks amazing with gray. I wanted to wear green shoes under my dress, but did not have luck finding any (that a loooooong story for another post!).
The BM’s all agreed that they would like to wear yellow shoes, and that yellow was a color they would wear again.
Fast forward to now, and one Bridesmaid or Best Man (FI’s sis no less), seems very uphappy with being required to get yellow. She told me she could not find anything, and I suggested some online retailers (Nordstrom, Zappos, 6pm, DSW). It is true, that right now, just a couple days into March, there is not a lot out there. However, every option I showed her she told me was “too casual”. I am planning to wear wedges myself, either leather or cloth, so I don’t understand why she insists on having a really dressy cocktail type shoe. The wedding is outdoors in the summer. I would wear TOMS, even, but my feet are too small for them (I wear a size 4.5).
I’m not sure what she really wants, but she did suggest a dyable satin shoe, a strappy sandal. I said it would be fine, but to be careful about wearing a spike heel outdoors. She then found a pair of green shoes she likes, and wants to wear green.
Am I a bridezilla if I tell her no way, I am wearing green, and I want the BM’s to all find SOMETHING yellow? I told her to give it a couple of weeks into spring season, and there should be a lot more options. She does not seem to believe me.