Post # 1
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Buzzing bee
I loved my wedding but there is a part of me that would have loved the elopement idea. I felt the planning was really rushed. I look at elopements and think I missed out on a very intimate time with my Darling Husband. I AM VERY THANKFUL FOR MY WEDDING I HAD. Just wanted to say that because I don’t want anyone thinking I am spoiled or ungrateful. Is anyone else feeling this way? I want to get dressed up again and feel beautiful. I want to get in a puuurdddy gown again. I don’t know. It’s been bugging me.
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
I think if it’s possible (and it all depends on kids, time, money, etc) Darling Husband and I would like to have a vow renewal on a beach somewhere for our 10th anniversary.
You can also go on an anniversary trip to somewhere beachy and romantic if you don’t want to wait years and years!
Post # 4
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Honey bee
I also feel this way. I got married in April and never wanted to have a wedding and neither did my husband, but when i told my parents that we were planning to go to an island or even Vegas to get married, my dad said “and i don’t get to give my only daughter away” and that broke our hearts. Parents are not here forever, so who am i to take this away from my dad, so we had a very small wedding (63 people) in a restaurant. I didn’t even bother going to the wedding hall, its just not me, but i think everyday what would have been like if i just went on with my original plans, so my hubby and i decided to go to nice island and do it all over, just us. I will get into a pretty gown again or just a pretty dress, bare foot and do it again. That’s more like us! We are thinking on doing this for our annyversary.
Good luck with your plans and do whatever makes you both happy. 🙂