- 4 years ago
- Wedding: December 2014
I am new to WeddingBee and I love it so far!!! I enjoy seeing everyone that’s getting married and their ideas and advice that is given. With that being said, I do need some good advice.
I have 2 friends that I am very close to. One I have known since I was 9 (I’m 33 now) and the other have known for the last 13yrs (I’ll call her A). We all have been through thick and thin together. Even as far as her now ex husband trying to cheat on her with me, pulling a gun on my other friend and I, and dealing with all of their drama. She has had her moments that she does not talk to me during this time for weeks at a time bc she’s upset with me for her ex husband trying to get with me or someone she likes liking me. I stood by her side through all the drama and would wait for her to get over her issue and we would tak as if nothing ever happened. Lately, it’s getting worse. I met a guy 3 yrs ago after my divorce and we kicked it off well and everyone liked him, including A. One day, him and I were having a disagreement and she came over. Now, instead of leaving because we were arguing, she stays and ends up getting caught in the crossfire of our arguement with my the boyfriend stating that “I should be happy that I’m not going through half of the things that A is going through.” At that time she was going through a bunch of issues due to her trying to find happiness in all the wrong places. He did apologize later for what he had said, but she wouldn’t except it. She has now stayed her distance and doesn’t come around when I invite her over, but we still talk and not to mention she does have my godbabies. My boyfriend did pop the questions and everyone was excited but her. Even when I asked her to be in my wedding she was like “I have to think about it.” She even came to my Meet and Greet Luncheon and didn’t speak to my fiance. She has also now started to get jealous when she sees that I am out with other people, even my family. Well, everything came to a head and we talked about it and she stated that she knows she’s jealous, but that she will cool it, but she hasn’t. She’s now saying that she “knows how to handle people like me” and that I’m not a true friend. I don’t know what else to do. I’m to the point now that I don’t want her in my wedding at all. She has even gone as far as to wear the earrings that I gave her for the wedding as if they are everyday earrings and I wouldn’t be surprised if she is wearing the necklace too. Please someone, help me.