(Closed) When do you start to bug people about RSVP's?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 17
1709 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

I sent a mass reminder to my secret FB wedding group (only invitees) regarding the due date about a week before…people like to leave stacks of mail and forget about it, lol.  After the due date, we made phone calls (and enlisted our mothers to hunt people down).


Post # 18
3728 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: City, State

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@IUrebekah3RT:  No, it is that you respect that they are adults and can make responsible decisions. People have the information, if they don’t book in time, that is their problem.

As hard as it is not to nag, having been one who is nagged, we know and we will make a decision by the deadline date. We may stay somewhere else if necessary. 

Post # 19
1022 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@IUrebekah3RT:  I say you have to wait until the RSVP date passes until you follow up.


some people might not know for sure yet, due to work schedules or what not.

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