(Closed) When he ejaculates inside you without a condom, is it more intimate/romantic?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: When he ejaculates inside you without a condom, is it more intimate/romantic?
    Yes : (173 votes)
    63 %
    No : (37 votes)
    14 %
    Not sure/No difference : (25 votes)
    9 %
    yes, but the mess offsets it : (39 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Honestly, I can’t feel any difference at all..either in the sex or just physically. *shrug*

    Post # 4
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    2496 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    Eh, I personally don’t feel a difference whether he has a condom or not…. maybe I’m abnormal, but I can’t feel it at all.

    So, I personally prefer a condom because of the clean up factor.  Darling Husband doesn’t like them because it’s messier for him, so we split it and do every other time to make it “fair”. 🙂

    Post # 5
    Member
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I don’t think it’s more romantic…however unlike the others I notice a difference it feels way better without it

    Post # 6
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    3587 posts
    Sugar bee

    I think it’s more intimate to me. He is the only man I’ve had condomless and birth control-less sex with, so maybe that has something to do with it? Who knows? Or maybe it’s just me.

    Post # 7
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    405 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I wouldn’t call it romantic, but it’s way hotter!

    Post # 8
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    762 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I prefer it a lot more. Yes there is a mess but I do find it a lot more intimate and romantic than a piece of plastic between us.

    Post # 9
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    1645 posts
    Bumble bee

    Well, there’s more of a mess, and it’s not like you can feel him coming, but yeah–condom-less sex feels waaaaaay better. I’m envious of those who don’t notice a difference. 

    Post # 10
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    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I wouldn’t say it is more romantic but IMO, it feels better and we both prefer it.

    I do see it as somewhat more intimate personally but that may be partly due to the fact that Darling Husband and I didn’t stop using condoms until after we were engaged so it was kind of associated with taking things to a new level of commitment.

    Post # 11
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    3012 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Romantic? Eh, hotter.  Definitely hotter.  Hah.  We’ve had sex with condoms in the beginning.  I can definitely feel a difference between the two.  Gets me more excited, really.

    Post # 12
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    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    WTF?!  Of course not!  This thread is shocking the living daylights out of me people!

     

    Post # 13
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    1359 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I have to say, not really. In all honesty – it’s more of a mess and clean up for me. That night and the next day. That being said, we only recently started using condoms because I just went off BCP. I only notice a difference with/without the condom if he goes too long without any lube – it starts to chafe. Sorry if that’s Too Much Information – LOL.

    Post # 14
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    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I think it’s definitely more intimate. I don’t know about romantic, and it’s for sure messier… But I’d say it is absolutely more intimate. 

    Post # 15
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    109 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I think it feels way better for sure but IDK about romantic. Love the warm feeling though. Tongue out

    Post # 16
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    4606 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    More romantic? No way. More intimate? I suppose it could be considered that since there isn’t this rubber thing seperating you. But, it is messier. FH and I don’t really like condoms, but we stuck with them in the beginning of our relationship. When we stopped using them, it was much better : )

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