Post # 32
I’ve honestly never NOT used a condom. I have no experience without condoms and don’t plan on not using a condom until we’re TTC in a few years. Yes I’m also on the pill, we just really don’t want kids yet. I don’t mind him wearing them – its all I know and is no problem – easy clean up, no issues.
Post # 33
It feels better without a condom – but he has never ejaculated into me without a condom. We also use spermicide and I’m on birth control. For him, it’s an intense fear of getting me pregnant – which, as prepared as we otherwise, is ridiculous to me In My Humble Opinion. I hope someday he WILL because I do see it as more intimate.
Post # 34
Its a bit of both for me. It CAN be romantic, when we’re having romantic sex but it also is kind of an annoying mess if I’m not careful. It honestly feels better with out a condom either way.
Post # 35
I am still waiting for engagement. I am on the pill (mini pill) AND we use condoms. It’s because we are NOT ready for kids yet. I’m 26, he’s 28 and we are still establishing ourselves. We didn’t use a condom one time only. He didn’t finish inside though. There is definitely a difference between condom vs. non condom (i know from other experiences). I cannot wait until we are married, bc he will not use condoms at all. I can’t wait to be closer and more intimate with him in this way. He will also be the first person I have condomless + birthcontroless sex with.