(Closed) When is HE going to PROPOSE?

posted 11 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh my goodness, Congratulations!!!!

Post # 18
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

congrats! Yay for sneaky boyfriends who become wonderful fiances!

Post # 19
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Blushing bee

I dated a guy like that before I met Fiance.

Sorry, but he’s not going to propose. You’ve been together almost 5 years and you already live with him. What reason does he have to propose at this point? My ex bf and I were together about that long and he demanded I live with him for a few years before he’d even consider it. I refused. He cheated. End of story.

Fiance & I were dating a year to the date when he proposed. We do not live together. He respected my wishes there. 

Some men want marriage, some don’t. You know the old story, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?  I think many men fall into that.

*hugs* I hope it works out for you but if marriage is what you want and he doesn’t propose in NYC, I’d seriously consider leaving before wasting any more time.

Post # 20
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Blushing bee

Just read your update! CONGRATS!!

Post # 21
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010 - Heron Hill Winery

Leave it to the guy to surprise you when you least expect it!  Congrats and gorgeous ring!

 

Post # 22
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Congrats!! My now Fiance did the same thing to me. He made me think that he wasn’t going to be able to afford the ring, and we would have to wait. So I resigned myself to waiting, and then he pops the question! He sat on my ring for a MONTH! These boys are weasels.. 🙂

Post # 23
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2007

These posts are my favorites! The ones where they try to get encouragement from the hive b/c the proposal seems so far off, and then oops! He told you all of that stuff to throw you off! I loved the “probably not” comment he made. Men love to make us so oblivious so that they can surprise the heck out of us!

CONGRATULATIONS!!! Oh and gorgeous ring! I love it!

Post # 24
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Congrats! Your ring is beautiful!

Post # 25
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Helper bee

Oh congrats!! I was reading the start of this post and feeling bad for you and remembering that awful feeling but now I’m sooo happy for you!

 

and Kudos to you for going into the Peace Corps!

Post # 26
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Busy bee

Congrats!!  What a sneaky guy… Smile

 

p.s– I brought up going into the Peace Corps after marriage and he was so excited!  Hopefully it’s something we can do together after he gets out of the army.  Thanks for the tip!

Post # 27
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

CONGRATS! Gorgeous ring by the way!

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