(Closed) When is the proper time to leave the hive?

posted 9 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2005 - Westside Loft, New York

Never!!!! 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Well- I don’t know if I will ever quite… leave. there are some great ideas I can continue to get for my sisters wedding (when that happens). And this is a great resource to comb through the weddingbeepro area for decorative party ideas, home design ideas…

I have noticed I don’t post as much because some of the things in the boards don’t apply to me anymore, or because other people have provided good sound advice that I don’t feel the need to add to it. 

But after our wedding I do hope to provide a vendor review because I didn’t find a lot of info on the Napa region/Calistoga region vendors I was using. So maybe the ones I am using will be of help to Northern Cali brides-to-be….

I am still waiting for Mrs Bee to make a BabyBee site… ;o) I will be there in a second and a heart beat so help you all!!!! >:-) You have been forwarned Mrs Bee! You have been forewarned!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Good question!  I’m guessing that by the time the wedding is done I’m going to need a good long break from all things wedding, but I have no idea if that will actually happen.  I do know that I’m already interested in newlywed and baby blogs (even if the later is still a few years out still.)  I would love to see a Weddedbee or Babybee though!  *nudge nudge*  πŸ˜‰

ETA: I don’t mean to put any pressure on Mr. and Mrs. Bee.  Things happen in their own good time but that doesn’t mean we’re not excited for the possibilities!

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

I am excited about the possibility of a Babybee too, but I totally understand that now is not the right time for that… but if Mrs. Bee ever wants a partner in crime to spin one off ;)…

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Good post and I’m not really sure!  Since my wedding was just 2 weeks ago, I’m still coming down from the high of it all.  I’m sure I will stop posting less and then finally just disappear…as my dad would say, like a fart in the wind…haha!  I can’t cut the cord yet, but maybe some day!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Yes Mrs Bee…. if you need a partner in crime… >:-)  You will see a new emergence from mua!

Take your time on the babies ladies… I’m just saying there will be a massive huge wave coming from me when that happens…  bwa ha ha ha haaaaa. 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I will never EVER leave the bee.  I love it way too much!

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Seconded Mrs. Bee! Never! I came here un-engaged and I’m still here even though we are not having a wedding! I love this community and love reading about everyone’s wedding! πŸ™‚

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

i think i’ll need the bee to get my planning fix once mine is done!

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

I actually stumbled upon it after my wedding.  I was researching something for my cousin’s wedding.   Now, I’m hooked  Who knows, since I don’t have a set wedding deadline to come and go????  But I’m not sure I could just leave cold turkey, and have an offical sign off.  So sad πŸ™

By the way, Mrs. Spring, thanks for putting little old me in the likes of those other fabulous bees!  I am just touched.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I figure I’ll stick around until I’ve got a baby that takes up all of my computer time.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I don’t wanna leave!! Thankfully my wedding is still a year away and since I’m the first of my close friends to get married, I know I’ll continue reading for a while. I think if a BabyBee were to pop up soon after my wedding it could be bad news…I’d get baby fever! We don’t want kids for at least 5 years after we’re married. I know a BabyBee would just get me hooked on the baby idea. Buuut at the same time maybe it would show me how HARD it is to be pregnant….hmm… Anyway, I love this community and all of you fabulous women too much to just quit. Haha what’s that line from "Brokeback Mountain"? "I just can’t quit you!"

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Great question, I’ve pondered this too! There are some bees on the blog whom I followed for months, and I promised myself it was ok to stick around long enough to see all of their recaps.  That’s the deal I made with myself BEFORE the wedding.

Funny thing happened, with the wedding just two weeks ago now…..I have a whole new perspective on weddings now that I’ve had my own.  And the support I have needed has been totally different than before the wedding.  I will probably leave weddingbee around Christmas.  My (late) honeymoon will the over, and the last of the weddings in my life wil be done by then.  I am already starting to get a little weary of some of the planning gripes and emotions we all go through, and I also don’t want to stay if I feel myself being critical or unhelpful to ladies still planning.  I’m just being honest, I hope that makes sense. 

Unexpectedly, there are a few bees out there who have really buzzed right into my heart, and I hope we’ll just stay in touch by e-mail regardless. 

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