(Closed) When it comes to the guest list I am a bridezilla how many write ins did you hav

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Take a deep breath. There’s room for them and the person paying can foot the bill. Is it that the wedding is bigger than you wanted? Is it that you’re just annoyed they are ignoring etiquette?

The day of, all that will matter is that the people you love are there (it won’t matter that people you don’t love so much are also there) and that you are marrying your Fiance. Hang in there.

Normally, btw, I’d say to put your foot down and politely call the people and say you couldn’t accommodate the extra guests, but if your mom is paying and is okay with it, then I don’t think you have much support here.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@NAvery:  +1. This is very good advice. ((hugs))

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Bright side.. you probably won’t even notice them if you’re having a medium to large sized wedding. I realized at our engagement party, which was only like 40 people – it was so hard to get around and talk to any one for any length of time, and after the fact I felt I had spent the whole evening trying and not spent enough time with my Fiance (as evidence in our photos from that night – we were all over the place but rarely together – note to self: hold hands throughout wedding mingling). So now, our 140-person wedding I’ve realized is going to be that TIMES 3! Probably won’t get to spend much time with anyone in particular, just hopefully my hubby :-). 

I totally agree with how you feel… but just saying, it might not end up being too big of an impact on your day when all is said and done.

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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@NAvery:  Nothing additional to say beyond this

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