(Closed) When Not to send a Gift

posted 9 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
3884 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think that, since you have sent previous gifts and not been thanked for them, it would be perfectly okay to not send a gift and send only a card in this situation.

Post # 5
4940 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

You could just send a nice congrats card and call it done.

Post # 6
197 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

You said it – be the better person.  I wouldn’t spend $100 on them either when clearly they did nothing for you.  Maybe $50 as a gift card to where they are registered??  

Post # 7
1668 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

You are not required to buy something off the registry.  You could just send a card with a check in the amount you wish to give.  Of course, you can also just send the card alone.  I think you are being very thoughtful.

Post # 8
2779 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Don’t send a gift, and be completely okay with it. They clearly have no interest in anything going on in your life, and most likely only sent the invite in order to receive more gifts.

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