Post # 1
Do you and your SO’s sexual appetites match? By sexual appetite, I mean do you want sex with the same frequency as your spouse? Do you have similar expectations of a sexual encounter?
For me, I love quickies, like 10-20 mins. I climax quickly and then I’m over it shortly afterward. I know it’s not my SO’s fault because he is great. I just love it to be over quickly.
Our sexual styles don’t match all that well either. He likes lots of foreplay and I wanna just get right to it.
As far as I know, the differences don’t cause much tension. I give in and have sex way more often than we would have sex if it was up to me to initiate it and I don’t mind very much.
Post # 3
We match libidos and styles more often than not. He initiates more, but I do at times. I would say our expectations are the same going into the encounter too.
Post # 4
He wants sex more frequently than I do. I have to be in the right mood, but when I am we usually have sex for a few hours. Other than him wanting it more often than me I’d say we’re sexually compatible 🙂
Post # 5
I probably want it more than he does on a regular basis, but he’s never refused my advances …so if I just initiate, he’ll totally get into it. And vice versa for sure, though I can’t think of a time when he’s jumped things off when I wasn’t already thinking about it 😛 (Except for his nutty habit of starting something in his sleep which is like, my favorite thing EVER lol.)
In terms of needs during the act, we are on the same page. Even if we’re in the mood for different things, we’re both really GGG so it’s always hot 🙂
Post # 6
We both are rabbits, and like longer sessions of sex. We prefer to have sex everyday.
If he comes before me, no big deal…he knows how to finish me off in other ways! 😉
Post # 7
He wants more sex, but I think that’s pretty common. We do it about 1-3x per week, but we NEVER have quickies. If we did, we may have sex more often, but I am kinda sensitive down there, so if we have sex that lasts awhile, I’ll get a little tender the next day.
I’m happy with our sex life though!
Post # 8
I never want to have sex and when I do it last a few seconds then I’m like oh no I don’t want to do this.
I love it when it gets into it most the time.
althought I take forever and usually we have to have some out side help from my “little buddy” to santisfy me. 🙁
I feel awful and he hates it but.. I just have apparently no labido.
Post # 9
@alishaloo: I’m sure you have a libido. You may just not know what you like yet and if you’re not excited about sex, maybe he doesn’t know what to do for you yet. You should check out this website. It’s pretty cool. All about better orgasms, sex education (NSFW).
Post # 10
i guess we are both horn balls we match pretty nicely
Post # 11
My libido is (a lot) higher than his. It doesn’t bother me most of the time. Occassionally I’ll get a little frustrated that I wanna do it and he doesn’t, but it’s not a big deal. Also, I like a lot of foreplay/making out beforehand. He likes a little, but way less than me.
Post # 12
Ours do for the most part. He likes quickies and I just can’t get into it. I don’t need to go on for hours, but a solid 20-25 minutes is ideal for me.
Post # 13
Nope not at all, causes tons of fights. He wants it waaay more than me. I’d be content with 2-4 times a month. It hurts, so I get scared. He is becoming more understanding though with the fact that it hurts and I give in as much as I can. Usually we end before he climaxes as it hurts me too much.
Post # 14
@alishaloo: I’m the same way as you. The “little buddy” usualy comes into play.
Post # 15
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I think we are both pretty much on the same page as far as sex goes.
Post # 16
We go in cycles…although our style is the same when we each want it syncs about 75% of the time, the other time we are completely off.