- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2016
MrsPiggles: I was thinking either that, or he has an issue with female desire. Because rape is not considered a loss of virginity because she didn’t want it. So maybe he’s afraid if she’s ever wanted any penis but his, that she will find another one she wants more? Or it really is this fetish…
“Harmatophilia refers to one who is aroused by mistakes … people who are aroused by their partner having less sexual knowledge or competence than themselves. This bolsters their self-esteem and makes them feel more secure in the relationship. Of course, this preference for sexually inept females can cause some women to either feign incompetence or prevent them from wanting to experiment or learn more about sex many men find it novel, feeling honored, enjoy the feeling of power in defiling a virgin, are relieved that they cannot be compared with anyone else, or have a religious ethic that would create prejudice against a partner who was not a virgin”
In the rest of the article it basically says requiring partners be virgins (out of sexual preference) is basically linked to peodophilia except that is is socially acceptable. But it comes from the same place of wanting to be in control of another person and to hold the “power” over someone who is inexperienced.
Hammer, meet nail.