Post # 1
My RSVP date is September 9th. My mom wants me to start contacting people about the RSVP’s now…I think I should wait until September 9th since that’s when we asked people to respond by. When is it okay to start asking people about the RSVP?
Post # 3
@LizzyR: You should wait until September 9. A lot of RSVPs come in the last week or just slightly over the deadline. Plus I feel it is kind of rude to call before. It sort of looks like desparation or annoying. Anyway, wait until September 9 and then start calling them 🙂
Post # 4
@megz06: That’s what I was thinking too…Thank you!
Post # 5
I would actually wait until Sept 13 or 14. We had a ton of guests mail there RSVPs out on the actual deadline so we received them a couple of days after. But absolutely wait until the actual due date.
Post # 6
@LizzyR: It depends who your missing people are. My mom sent out a FYI email to her family reminding them that the RSVP deadline was 3 days away. It worked. I waited until 3 days after to harass everyone.