(Closed) When should I send out my invites?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

Most of mine were Out of Town and I sent them out 2nd week of July for a Sept. 20th wedding.

Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

My wedding is December 6th. We are sending ours out this week. I also follow a checklist on the knot.com I think im a tad behind, but not too bad. 

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I had quite a few Out of Town guests and I sent them out in early July for a September wedding. Unless Out of Town means in another country people will still get mail in a few days.  I would do it about 2 months before your date. When is the final count needed for your venue/caterer? That’s what is important. You need to give time for people to get the invites, respond, mail them back, chase down those that dont respond, and then get your final count together. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

i would send them late october/early november, but it also kinda depends when your rsvp deadline is and when you need to submit final numbers to your venue.

i sent my invites in early july for my mid-september wedding. my rsvp date was mid/late august. i had to give my final numbers a week or two before the wedding.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - 11/15/14-Vineyard

Honestly, with your wedding being right at the holidays and new year AND mostly out of town guests, as people generally schedule time off NOW, I would send them out ASAP!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

KatyKat:  I’d send them now since people are traveling.  Mine is January 17 and I’d love to have them in the mail by the end of October if not right on the 17th (3 months out) 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I just sent mine for Jan 17th 2015 as it’s such a busy time of year for many people and I have quite a few Out of Town guests

Post # 9
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Busy bee

General rule is to give them 5 weeks from when they get the invite to the RSVP date. The RSVP date should be about 2-3 weeks before your wedding date.

So, since yours is literally right at the holidays, I would add a few weeks to that. People may already have holiday plans. I would say say mid-end of oct. People will get them by the end of oct and have 1.5 month to decide (by mid dec?)

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