(Closed) When someone starts putting more effort into their appearance……………….

posted 5 years ago in Beauty
Post # 2
2347 posts
Buzzing bee

barnes66:  Aww, don’t be embarassed!

I think those ladies just thought it was cute. I think your crush will probably just think, “dang! she’s looking good lately!” Most guys probably wouldn’t put all of that together, and if he does say something (like ask you about why you started wearing makeup, which i seriously doubt will happen), just be vague and light and say, “oh i’ve just been feeling really good about myself lately!” 

Post # 3
649 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014
  1. I think you could chalk it up to wanting to look nice just for yourself. If you start spinning it in your head as, your taking care of your appearance because it makes YOU feel good, regardless of what others say, you can just stick to that reasoning. If the guy notices you’ve been looking nicer lately,he probably won’t jump to the conclusion that it’s all for him.  Guys are kinda clueless when it comes to that stuff…
Post # 4
9526 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

You are overthinking it. Women constantly evolve their style and appearance. As the PP said, generally guys don’t notice it’s for them. As for the other ladies? Eh, Unless they see you acting different around him then they won’t think it’s for him to notice you.

Post # 5
6436 posts
Bee Keeper

barnes66:  I don’t think he will.  Im not saying this to be mean, but my husband hardly notices small changes that I do, and he’s my husband!  But that doesn’t mean he won’t.  I say just act like everything is normal.  I change my style frequently enough that surprisingly many people don’t notice, especially the men in the office.

Just be normal and you’ll be fine.  Those women won’t know who it is or who you like.

Post # 6
1382 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I don’t think you need to be embarrassed but if it gets awkward just say it was a New Years resolution to invest more in your clothes/makeup for work and that now you have gotten the new scrubs you’ve been putting it into effect.

Post # 7
234 posts
Helper bee

Awww, cute that you’re making yourself feel good by dressing differently and that you have a crush! Great sign that he said you were looking good 😉 Good luck!

Post # 8
2425 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I honestly think that when you look nice and you know you look nice you tend to feel more confident. 

Post # 9
84 posts
Worker bee

barnes66:  lol I’m like you, where I don’t ever wear any make up at work… and when I do everyone NOTICES it and wonders why. I think he may notice it, but it’s not like a big deal. 

Post # 10
2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Just say yes you’re dating someone new. That will take the heat off your crush, it might even get his attention…. After a few weeks subtly drop hints that you “broke it off” and keep dressing nicely!

Post # 11
3198 posts
Sugar bee

Don’t be embarrassed! Also, if anyone asks, just tell them you felt like a change and are feeling great I’m your own skin these days!  

Post # 12
8942 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

I don’t think you need to worry about this. I started wearing more make up, because I liked the way it looked on me. Two of my colleagues noticed and said I looked pretty. That was that.

Post # 13
400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

barnes66:  Bravo! Good for you! Hope your crush works up the courage to ask you on a date soon. On a related note, maybe there are other colleagues who have a crush on you now 🙂

Post # 15
52 posts
Worker bee


barnes66:  How old are you? You sound like a high schooler.  If you like this guy, ask him in a date.

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