Post # 1
Hello Bees! I am newly engaged (less than a week) and our wedding isn’t for another year and a half. How soon should I ask my friends to be BMs? Is it possible to ask them too soon? I have heard different viewpoints, and I just thought I would get your opinions.
Post # 3
I think it depends who you are asking. If its a sibling or FI’s sibling you won’t lose touch with them in a year in a half. But if its a friend, you might. If you’re super close friends been friends forever I might ask this early but for the most part I’d wait at least until a year in advance. YOu might become closer with someone and wish you had asked them and you might lose touch with someone you are close with now. Alot can happen and you don’t want to regret your decisions.
Post # 4
I agree with @Aumuller. Between 8-12 months out. That will give time for dresses to be ordered, but isn’t so far in advance that you may regret asking so early!