(Closed) When to ask my Bridesmaids?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: When should I ask my bridesmaids?
    Right away! You seem sure and the time is right! : (7 votes)
    70 %
    Wait awhile, just give it a bit more time. : (3 votes)
    30 %
    Wait until you can get everyone together at one time. (If possible) : (0 votes)
    Other (Please Explain) : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    7311 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    I know you think that things will not change, but a lot can happen in the 13 months between now and your wedding. Wait until mid-late fall and re-assess at that point. Then, once you’ve made your decision, a one-on-one chat with each of them should suffice.

    Post # 4
    8860 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @Ms_Purple:   ask 9-12 months in advance.

    Post # 6
    1193 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I asked mine immediately, but I’m only having about a 14 month engagement. I’d always known who I was going to ask so I asked everyone within about a week of getting engaged.

    Post # 7
    18 posts
    • Wedding: June 2014 - Orlando Science Center

    If you already know, then ask them!  I’m not getting married ’til 6/22/14 and I asked mine last week.  My BM’s and bridesman all live in different states, so I wanted to give them plenty of notice 🙂

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