(Closed) when to give boudoir pics?

posted 8 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
1003 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am waiting until the honeymoon. What is he going to do with them during the ceremony? reception? etc? It isn’t something you just want “anyone” holding on to. I recommend the wedding night or pack it up and give it to him on the honeymoon.

Post # 4
222 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think that what your friends said is rather silly, to be honest.  I wouldn’t worry about such a thing.  Unless he has a problem controlling himself, I think he’ll be just fine.  Plenty of women gift their soon-to-be husbands boudoir pics on the wedding day (frequently caught by the photographer, nonetheless) and they’ve all made it through the ceremony just fine, I’m sure. 

That said, I would give it to him at a private moment simply because it’s a private item (and I’d worry about it hanging out at the church during/after the ceremony), but if that seems ring to you, then go for it!  Don’t worry about what your friends said, I’m sure it’ll be fine.  He will not need to run off and masturbate to make it through the day.

Post # 6
1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I would be afraid that the wrong person would get a hold of them if they are with you the day of the wedding.  I personally would wait until the first night of the honeymoon.

Post # 7
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I wouldn’t give him them at the wedding because who is going to watch them while he is getting married?  You don’t want the groomsmen holding onto them.  And yes he might have some reaction to them, but I doubt he will be walking around with an erection for an hour.

Post # 8
2867 posts
Sugar bee

I think you should do them after everything is done.  I wouldn’t want people finding or getting my pics..

Post # 9
59 posts
Worker bee

I agree with a lot of the posters here. I’d be afraid of it getting misplaced/lost/or getting into the wrong hands! I think it would be cute and fun if you gave it to him the morning after the wedding night. Set it up in a place he will see it when he first opens his eyes in the morning 🙂 I would figure that would be a GREAT way for a newly married man to start the first day 🙂 hehe. btw… I LOVE your idea about writing letters to each other during your hour to kill before the ceremony. 🙂

Post # 10
36 posts
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am leaving mine at the house for him to open up in the morning of the wedding with his other gift while I am out getting hair/make-up done.  Could this idea work for you, or do you want to be there to see his reaction?  I think it will be fun to tease him all day long with the pics, because then the wedding night will be AMAZING(if ya know what i mean) because he has been “waiting” for it all day!!!  Just my 2 cents!  Have a great day!

Post # 11
5148 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I was going to give me before the wedding sometime (I’m horrible at keeping secrets!), but I really like the idea of the day after the wedding! I think I’ll do that!

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