Post # 1
I had boudoir pictures taken and I’m not sure when to give them to Fiance. Originally, I was going to do it between our first look and the ceremony, when we have an hour to kill at the church.
But last night at my bachelorette party, I showed the pictures and told them my plan, and they said it was a horrible idea to do it then. They said it would mess with his head, and he would “have to” masturbate when he saw them, and he would have an erection the entire hour-long ceremony. Now, I’m not sure how much of that is true, and how much is silly, dirty bachelorette party talk.
What do you think, hive? Is my original idea dumb? For the reasons my girls mentioned or for other reasons? Should I wait to give them to him at a quiet moment on the honeymoon or something?
Post # 3
I am waiting until the honeymoon. What is he going to do with them during the ceremony? reception? etc? It isn’t something you just want “anyone” holding on to. I recommend the wedding night or pack it up and give it to him on the honeymoon.
Post # 4
I think that what your friends said is rather silly, to be honest. I wouldn’t worry about such a thing. Unless he has a problem controlling himself, I think he’ll be just fine. Plenty of women gift their soon-to-be husbands boudoir pics on the wedding day (frequently caught by the photographer, nonetheless) and they’ve all made it through the ceremony just fine, I’m sure.
That said, I would give it to him at a private moment simply because it’s a private item (and I’d worry about it hanging out at the church during/after the ceremony), but if that seems ring to you, then go for it! Don’t worry about what your friends said, I’m sure it’ll be fine. He will not need to run off and masturbate to make it through the day.
Post # 5
Good point, logistics. I didn’t think about that. I was thinking about killing that hour, and I asked him to write me a letter to read during that time, and I was going to write him one too and give the pictures with it. I guess they don’t have to go together, and maybe the message of the letter will be better if they don’t.
Post # 6
I would be afraid that the wrong person would get a hold of them if they are with you the day of the wedding. I personally would wait until the first night of the honeymoon.
Post # 7
I wouldn’t give him them at the wedding because who is going to watch them while he is getting married? You don’t want the groomsmen holding onto them. And yes he might have some reaction to them, but I doubt he will be walking around with an erection for an hour.
Post # 8
I think you should do them after everything is done. I wouldn’t want people finding or getting my pics..
Post # 9
I agree with a lot of the posters here. I’d be afraid of it getting misplaced/lost/or getting into the wrong hands! I think it would be cute and fun if you gave it to him the morning after the wedding night. Set it up in a place he will see it when he first opens his eyes in the morning 🙂 I would figure that would be a GREAT way for a newly married man to start the first day 🙂 hehe. btw… I LOVE your idea about writing letters to each other during your hour to kill before the ceremony. 🙂
Post # 10
I am leaving mine at the house for him to open up in the morning of the wedding with his other gift while I am out getting hair/make-up done. Could this idea work for you, or do you want to be there to see his reaction? I think it will be fun to tease him all day long with the pics, because then the wedding night will be AMAZING(if ya know what i mean) because he has been “waiting” for it all day!!! Just my 2 cents! Have a great day!
Post # 11
I was going to give me before the wedding sometime (I’m horrible at keeping secrets!), but I really like the idea of the day after the wedding! I think I’ll do that!