(Closed) When to mail

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
514 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@W292737:  I would send them out ASAP. We did a Destination Wedding, so we did send out Save the Dates, but since you have a lot of people traveling, as much of a heads up as possible at this point would be best.


Post # 4
668 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Etiquette says no more than 8 weeks out. For a July 6 wedding, May 1 is about right.

Post # 5
3718 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Ii was alwaystold 6-8 weeks, by people have been asking where mine are and I’m getting married the week after you. I’d say anytime in the next 3 weeks would be idealand in the next 6 weeks would be okay.

Also, my shower invites are already out. The wedding invites will be a goodreminder to RSVP to the shower!

Post # 6
1671 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Church

@W292737:  Three months before is totally acceptable. Send them out tomorrow. I don’t know how long the mail takes in the States but it takes 7 business days in Canada if it is out of province. You have out-of-state folks and they need the warning.

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